BFN..😣

[A-Jay-]

Sad and sadness.. 😢 i failed..

[Tugsgirl]

Bfns are awful. Sorry to read this xx

[Kelly-03]

So sorry to hear your news, it's such an empty feeling x

[bluewanderlust]

So very sad to hear this. You have not failed, it just didn't work this time. xxxx

[Kattalex1]

Sorry to hear A-Jay... don't give up! Be strong... 😔

[ICSIBaby86]

So sorry 😰 xxx

[Shamrock16]

I'm so sorry to read this. Try to be kind to yourself, you are not a failure but I know it must feel like that right now Xxx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Sorry to hear this. You haven't failed it will happen. Take care xx

[_MrsC]

So sorry Sweetie. It's an awful feeling. I know you feel as though you failed but you didn't. It just didn't work and that won't be because of you. Sending you a big hug. x

[Bibble-2016]

You have not failed, no way. No one who does what we do is a failure. We're really strong and brave. Look after yourself, I know how hard it is xx

[Hidden]

Sorry to hear this, look after yourself xxx

[Mariec7]

Hi A-Jay-. It's a tough old journey. I am sorry to hear your news. YOU didn't fail, be kind to yourself and take some time now for you xxxx hugs xxxx

[E_05]

You definitely haven't failed! So sorry to read this, look after yourself xx

[Lou9]

So sorry to hear this. Thinking about you. X

[Lizzielizzielizzie]

It's not your fault and you didn't fail. Please try not to blame yourself. I've recently come to appreciate how damaging this is for us ladies.

Take time to grieve. I'm so sorry for your loss xx

[Oakey80]

Aw bfn's really do suck...but its definitely not your fault! They say your 1st go is more for diagnostics purposes ie to see how you react to the drugs etc... so most 1st goes fail. Mine did back in march but I was lucky enough to have some frosties...I started as soon as I could on a frozen cycle and I'm now 9wks pregnant...you could be in a few weeks too! Until then, cry, shout, laugh if you want to...its all normal!...and especially don't lose heart xxx 💘

[A-Jay-]

Thank you all for your kind words.. i thought i am very strong i can handle if i get a bfn.. but i am not.. i cried even i laughed lol.. everything around me seems depressing.. ignored my home my friends everything.. now planning to loose some extra weight i gained and to look after what i already have.. hugs for all lovely strong ladies..xx

[Hannah143]

Sending you big hugs 🤗, it's a cruel and painful journey. I hope you were able to spend some time focusing on you today. Today is nearly over and each day will easier from here on. Xx

[Fredaflintstone]

So sorry to hear you got a bfn. Please don't blame yourself- it's not your fault. You will have done all you can and it's not in your hands. We had a perfect blastocyst put back in and it didn't take. The doc said it would most likely still have been because of chromosomal damage even if it got to be an a grade blasto. He said its a bit of a numbers game and is optimistic about our chances if we try again - I wish I could say the same. I hope you are ok. It's really like grieving a big loss and so so hard but it does get easier. Sending you huge hugs xxxx

[Lou290901]

No you did not!!! I too am heading for a BFN test day is Friday but I know it hasn't worked and I've had to gently let my sister know which makes it all the harder! But I will stop the drugs, dust myself off, have a period and ask "when's the next round"?? Don't give up! Big Hug x x

[City74]

Really sorry to hear this. You haven't failed at all - please look after yourself as best you can at this time. xx

[Cinderella5]

So sorry, look after yourselves!xx

[A-Jay-]

Feeling better today.. but atleast in 2ww i had hope.. better luck next time ☺

[NMP1026]

Awe Hun you didn't fail at all. It's such a tough old journey. My OTD is tomorrow but I have caved and tested today to a BFN. life is cruel. Please look after yourself I'm sending great big hugs to you xxx