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Hi,

I am a 35-year-old woman. I got married to my husband 10 years ago. We were a happy couple enjoying every moment of our life. When I was 28, we planned to conceive a baby. Everything was going alright. I got pregnant. We were so happy that I cannot explain. But to our utter misfortune, I met with a road accident and had a miscarriage. After recovering from the trauma, my husband and I planned to conceive again. We tried a lot but could see no result.

We consulted a doctor. After several tests, the doctor informed me that I have become infertile. I could never imagine that the worst thing was waiting for me. We both are broken down from our heart. We are trying hard to find a solution.

Can anyone help me, please?

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Leesara

Sanaya, I'm afraid I don't have any smarts for you but wanted to reply to your post.... I'm sure there are many people on this forum who will be able to give advise and guidance. Just wanted to say, sorry to hear your news and be hopeful, I'm sure there will be a solution. Sending best wishes

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Jane_86

Sanaya! We all support you in this difficult period

First of all, never give up!

There are so many good people here - they will give you the best advice. Modern medicine can offer you a solution. I'm not an expert, but I know that doctors can impregnate your egg and place it in a surrogate mother. It will be your child, looks like you and your husband. Don't despair - we live in the 21st century.

Best wishes

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NicollineS

I completely agree with you! Why not the egg donation? If your uterine is right, and it is, this is a great option. I had a similar experience, but my son died after he was born... Don't want to talk about this, just wanted to say to you-pick up yourself, heal, and then try.

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satashajones

hello dear. how are you now? I feel sorry to hear about your miscarriage. but you know hat? you are perfect women yourself. don't stress out much. try seeking for alternatives. surrogacy or IVF might work for you. sending you baby dust. take care.

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lucyjones8

hey there. how are you both doing now? I feel so sorry to hear about your condition. how did the car accident happen? I must say. you are a strong woman. stay sane. you can do it. there are many alternatives too. IVF and surrogacy. consult a doctor about this. it might be helpful for you. you can do it. keep going. make a choice. stick to it. sending you baby dust. keep me updated. take care. hope my advice was helpful.

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aleenalee

I am so sad for you. I know how much unfortunate it would be. A woman always wants a baby. I wanted to be a mother. But it was not in my fate. I was so disturbed. Yet, I didnt lose trust. I was infertile. I have faced infertility for 10 years. I went for the medications as well, however, no luck. At last, I chose to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. The clinic furnished me with a sound surrogate. I was upbeat in light of the fact that my fantasy was becoming true obvious. I am a mother now. I am happy to the point that I picked it.

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Anastasia_

Miscarriages are the hardest ones to overcome. I can feel your pain. But life doesn't end here. You have to move on. I am not saying to do this right now. Take your time. Move to a positive atmosphere. And then try for another one. It could be rather naturally or through the scientific treatments. Sending you hearty wishes.

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Luis_

Hey dear, I really got hut to listen about your miscarriage. I hope you are in your good health. It is really heartbreaking to lose your soul part. A life without a baby is just so incomplete. But you have to make yourself strong enough. You have to face the world. If your desire is strong. Then, you have to be brave to stand up and try other options.

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