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Here we go! 3 bees in a hive! (Sorry for my weak metaphor)

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Hi!

2 days ago I had my embryo transfer. Three strong healthy five-day blastocysts were transferred. And now I have to wait for 2 weeks. I’m in love with my clinic. I don’t know how they carry out their surrogacy programs but I like the way they treat me within my Egg donation program.

We also have three embryos frozen and other 5 collected ones didn’t survive.

I don’t haste congratulating myself before the day of my blood test. It’s just a first attempt and there’s nothing to say beforehand. I don’t want to be upset.

So it goes. Hope you feel fine because I wish you only the best what can be.

The warmest regards

the capital of Ukrainia on a pic*

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Alice_W123

So glad for you.

Can you tell us more about your experience?

Especially about their success rates.

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Toyfortroy in reply to Alice_W123

I’ve been never interested to know about any rates. It’s just a statistic. I don’t like the numbers all the more so when I can’t control the authenticity of them.

I was already describing my journey it’s not the first post about my treatment.

I’m glad to tell my story but I don’t want to repeat the same sentences a lot of times again and again.

We have a very cheerful and skillful manager of the program. she is our lawyer in medical affairs. Hah

We like her very much, and I hope we don’t deliver the troubles to her.

What the success rates are good for clinic’s reputation, what do you think?

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Alice_W123 in reply to Toyfortroy

I red it.

There are no concrete information about country (does it safe), clinic (at least general info without naming it), experience of your journey.

So I`d be grateful if you describe some of it or even everything in your next post.

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Toyfortroy in reply to Alice_W123

We are in Ukraine. I do not think it would be OK to asound the name of the clinic now. I’m not ready to impact on its work standing. We just cooperate within our case I’d like to recommend their service but I don’t have the rights for recommendations yet. It’s too early to say anything.

We met a well-ordered supply and logistics there. We weren’t ever hungry or waiting without a car.

I guess it was luck we have amazing person in role of Program leading manager.

Everything is alright. So we have it now

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Alice_W123 in reply to Toyfortroy

Thank you for short reply about it.

It was exactly what I wanted.

Worried about some tricks in case of 3th world countries.

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Toyfortroy in reply to Alice_W123

I can’t call Ukraine the 3d world state. It’s developed and modern destination which has a lot of advantages for the people that travel or have a treatment there.

I find this place even good to live there (but in another life maybe) hah

U’ll see if you visit it.

Many people can speak in English (quite understandable English to be used in conversations) we had a short walking along the central streets and talked to the youths they looked amazing and full of elation. i meant that young folks are the heart and blood of the country that they live in.

Do you have plans for Ukraine?

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Alice_W123 in reply to Toyfortroy

Think of it as one of the options.

In case of IVF Ukraine is more like as place for recreation tourism, but in case of whole country it is pure as hell (GDP rating lover than in Nigeria).

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Toyfortroy in reply to Alice_W123

Hah, I think it’s not completely good to compare these countries. By the way my husband has been to Nigeria 5 years ago. He was also excited because it's a fascinating place. but he doesn’t advise to live there. It’s a bit not normal to say that Ukraine is a hell. It’s really a lovely country I’d like to visit it in other occasion.

Don’t be afraid. A lot of people remain satisfied with their service and medical treatment quality

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marsenan

Good news. I hope the ET was smooth and you feel good now. I see you also have 3 embies put back in, don't you afraid of multiple pregnancy then? I did the same to improve my chances but I failed despite this. Anyway, I believe you'll be much luckier than I was. Keep my fingers crossed for your positive result xx

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Toyfortroy in reply to marsenan

Thank you! it’s very warm to receive such messages from experienced women as you.

I’m so sorry that you have to tell about your winless. I hope it wasn’t the final try and you gonna have another round, am I right?

In case all the embees keep living I’ll be able to have a selective reduction to prevent possible risks.

However, my heart prompts me that we’ll get an agreement with my husband to carry triplets.

No-no, actually, I think a lot it could be harmful for their health and for mine as well.

I’ll be thinking well

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marsenan in reply to Toyfortroy

I can't say I'm too experienced as it was my very first try. I know it was stupid to expect that it would be a positive one but I was hoping. Anyways I signed for 5 attempts because I predicted failures..hope it won't take all these attempts to become mommy. so, you're right

right, reduction. but you need to go back to Ukraine for this, is it convenient? it's dangerous for the rest of your embies, it may lead to pregnancy loss. sorry for this unpleasant conversation, don't want you to lose your positive thoughts. Sticky vibes xx

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Toyfortroy in reply to marsenan

Difficult to say what is more dangerous for the health of my embryos the reduction or my decision to leave all three babies together.

And there’s no problem for coming to Ukraine. We are ready to do it if we decide it’ll be necessary.

As well as you I have signed for 5 attempt but I’ll be super happy to achieve pregnancy on the first try.

Good luck lovey.

The crazy 2ww. Hope it goes quickly for you and you get the positive result.

I am with your clinic also so will be looking out for your updates. Xx

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Toyfortroy in reply to

Thank you! you said you have your treatment in Ukraine? Is it a donation or surrogacy maybe?

I guess I may find out it by myself. This website has a history of each profile in free access.

I also wish you the best results and remain satisfied after all. XXX

We deserve to have it!

in reply to Toyfortroy

It's egg donation treatment I am having xx

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danysh13

Hello, my congrats to you. We are also in 2ww, in 3 days I will know the result.

you are right a surrogacy is quite different from an egg donation. It's also a nerve racking and devastating time, I remember my first time when I got to know that our surrogate is not pregnant. I thought I would never accept that but as you see, we are waiting for the result again.

p.s. also with one ukrainian clinic

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Toyfortroy in reply to danysh13

Thank you Honey! and please, receive the same wishes from me I guess you need them.

Sometimes our luck is close by but we don’t meet it. I also lived through some failures during last years. But I’m trying to control my emotions and I’m fully fine it’s the way I cope with all this mess.

Take a look into the future we are the happy moms there!

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danysh13 in reply to Toyfortroy

thank you very much for such warm words.

you know, I'm so tired from fails and I don't want to experience this again. Thanks God my surrogate is pregnant and I believe this time I'll be a winner.

every day I wake up with the thoughts I'm holding my baby, I'm waiting for it.

My husband already picked a name for a boy haha

p..s I believe it would be a girl

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Toyfortroy in reply to danysh13

How could know about your affairs? Please, if you don’t want to create a new post let me know how you will be. I really want us to become moms at last.

Have you seen your surrogate or it’s not permitted?

Be in touch with me dear

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danysh13 in reply to Toyfortroy

Thank you very much

well, as you could see we have started our second cycle with frozen eggs. Our first cycle didn't work, it was negative

as for surrogate mother, we are not allowed to see a surrogate before 12 weeks of her pregnancy(clinic's rules) but we are ok with it. We do understand that first trimester is the most important, and our surrogate needs a lot of attention, care, medical treatment.

what about you? what stage are you at?

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Toyfortroy in reply to danysh13

As I said before I’m on 2ww. Waiting for the test in less than one week.

Why you couldn't see your surrogate before 12 weeks of her pregnancy?

Maybe it depends on her personal health care or… these are the rules for all cases?

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danysh13 in reply to Toyfortroy

Sorry about that..

Actually, yes, its clinic rules. You are not allowed to see a surrogate for safety's sake. I mean the first trimester is very important for baby development as well as for woman. In any case, a meeting with IPs is stressful. No one wants to hurt a baby, right?

But don't worry. a surrogate is under clinic's control, she eats well, sleeps enough and takes all prescribed meds. She is in save hands :)

Wishing you all the best xxx

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Toyfortroy in reply to

Thank you Pumpkin!

I hope everything gonna be alright! Wish you to feel fine and have all the best too!

good luck xxx

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Thank you xx

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Toyfortroy

Hey my darlings! I forgot indeed forgot about this community! Hah I just forgot about everything around! I experienced a blow … but it was an incredible blow of gladness!

I’m pregnant! Pregnant at last!

I will be keeping my belly in safe from now it’s the most important organ in my life.

The thought that there a small life grows inside me is making me kindly mad. It’s unbelievable. I’m happy – but these are just empty words to describe my true emotional state.

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Carolinecleber in reply to Toyfortroy

I can’t believe it. I was looking at the wonderful photo attached to your post and randomly reading replies below and suddenly you wrote a new message! Hello!

That message was like a cure for the frustration and fear. it's inspiring!

My sweetest congratulations on your event! Good job!

From the very first try?

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Toyfortroy in reply to Carolinecleber

Yup xxx

It became a miracle for us. My husband was ready to kiss everyone he could meet that day. We don’t stop smiling and having a good mood.

Seems nothing can break our fine fettle and good expectations.

It’ll be a memorable summer time. I swear

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