Here we go again... Trying for sibling

[My_Miracle_Is_Here]

So after much contemplation we’ve decided to try to give our daughter a sibling. I know one day she’ll ask me for a little brother or sister, so I wanted to be able to look her in the eye and say we tried. I found IVF so emotionally hard the last time that I wasn’t sure I could do it again, but I’d do anything for my daughter.

I’m 38 now, 4 years older from when I did my first round and my fertility has decreased, I was shocked by how much when I had my AMH tested and my AFC. However my consultant doesn’t seem that worried and said the dose of stimulating meds is just a lot higher. Going for a short protocol this time (apparently it’s better for older women).

Ultimately I have my daughter, so if things don’t work out as we had planned then that’s okay, it will still hurt like crazy, but I’m so lucky that I have her, and she gives me the best cuddles in the world ❤️

[FutureMommy]

Congratulations on your little girl 😍. Wish you success for another miracle. Go for it 💪

[N-A-58]

We are in the exact same boat and started a fresh cycle (short protocol) at the end of Feb. Are due to transfer a blast 🤞🏻 on Monday.

Our little girl is 2 abs hope we can give her a sibling. Our little girl took 5 rounds and it was so tough emotionally!

[My_Miracle_Is_Here in reply to N-A-58]

Good luck for Monday! My little girl is 2 also. You’re right, It is so emotionally tough. But we got through it all once before 😊

[N-A-58 in reply to My_Miracle_Is_Here]

I knew I was doing the right thing for me and my family but reading what you wrote about ‘trying’ and looking her in the eyes really really struck a nerve with me. I feel really privileged to be able to afford this (remortgaged!!). If we can’t then you’re right, we tried!

Best of luck to you too xx

[Calamatie in reply to My_Miracle_Is_Here]

This is also our story! We really hope to give our 2yo daughter a sibling. Wishing you the very best of luck. It’s such an emotional journey, but too really sound as though you’ve got this 🥰

[Sparklylife in reply to N-A-58]

All the best for your transfer tomorrow 🤞🥰

[Jumpppy]

Same story - so far working out for us. Our DS (3) just realized what's happening and isn't so excited Was harder 2nd go - but I felt more prepared and informed so felt like I had a lot more control. Good Luck!

[Solly-44]

It must feel daunting to be stepping back into IVF. This will be me shortly (I hope!) so following along with you. Loads of luck x

[XxjustmexX]

Sending you lots of baby dust I’ll be trying for a sibling for my lb next month 🤞🏻xx

[McQueeny]

I’m 38 too and trying for a sibling for my little boy who’s 18 months! Good luck 🤞 💪 x

[Babybana]

Hi we are in the same boat. My daughter just turned 5 and is desperate for a sibling. I'm 36 and I had my first cycle when I was 29. I got 10 eggs in the first cycle and 4 good grade blasts but she was my final one through an fet as the others didn't stick. I was disappointed this time at how low my amh levels were 5.7 (the report said below average for my age) and only 9 follies on my scan its shocking how much fertility can change in a few years. Good luck on your journey

[Minnie92]

Congratulations on your daughter ! We are in the same position, ready for a sibling. Transfer on tuesday 🤞🏼 Good luck to you xxx

[Sparklylife in reply to Minnie92]

All the best for your transfer on Tuesday 🥰🤞

[Sparklylife]

Congratulations on your little girl and I just wanted to wish you all the best with starting again! Hopefully another fantastic outcome for you! Baby dust to you all 💫🤍