Pulling out the positives...

[louisear]

Expecting to have my medically induced miscarriage yesterday in hospital and all prepared but they have no bed so delayed until tomorrow. I'm hoping because my body's done it twice before it'll be quick and as painless as it possibly can be. It's hard to pull out any positives from such a s****y situation but apart from the love and support I will wallow in self pity if I want, wear my pjs all day, cry uncontrollably if I have to, eat half a packet of Jaffa cakes and drink several glasses of Prosecco if I want without feeling guilty! I'm sure you lovely ladies can add to this list of how to get through. Of course nothing can compensate for the happiness which our Christmas baby would've brought. Love and baby dust to you all xx

[_MrsC]

So sorry to hear this. I do hope it goes as smoothly as possible for you. 😘 I'd go for the whole pack of Jaffa cakes though. 😉 You will have more than earned them. xxx

[Sunshine09]

So sorry to read this, thinking of you, I think you covered everything, take good care of yourself ❤💋💋

[Sunnysam91]

You do whatever you want to lovely, personally I'm struggling to put the biscuits down still now lol! Awful how they've had to put you back 2 days as if this situation isn't hard enough to deal with but you stay strong and our little ones will shine down at Christmas knowing they were very much wanted and loved xx

[louisear in reply to Sunnysam91]

thanks Sam, that's lovely xx

[Tugsgirl]

Mine was due in November so I understand how you feel. I hope you spoil yourself rotten or get spoiled rotten by your OH. Look after each other. Thinking of you xx

[louisear in reply to Tugsgirl]

thanks Vicky. Hope you're enjoying your little bundle of fluff 😊 xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to louisear]

He's very sweet thank you xx

[Aleelilook]

Mine too would have been a Christmas baby, god life is such a shitter, what I would say is a different takeaway every night!! Hope it goes as well as it can xxxxx

[louisear in reply to Aleelilook]

thank you! That made me smile. Ironically lost 2 st to begIn IVF and its failure is going to make me put it all back on again. Now where's that pizza menu!xx

[DarChar]

it's a heartbreaking news...no words can make it better but you should know, we all are here with you ready to support and hear from you anytime. i was in the same boat and it washorrible. good for you that you've found some positive sides, if i may say so. you are free to do everything you want and more. Pity Party is a good choice, invite yor best friend for that evening, Good Old Cry, and together with Mr.Prosecco you will have a day-off. You may eat as many cakes as you can, actually, you can treat yourself to anything you want, you can do whatever you wanted to do but couldn't because of your position. you are free girl! cry and get well!! lots of love to you xxx

[Maikai]

I'd add to the list by suggesting you ought not limit yourself to half a packet of Jaffa cakes

[Georgina78]

Oh Hun how frustrating, hope it goes ahead tomorrow and goes smoothly. Absolutely do all those things and more, you deserve it xx

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear your news!

Thinking of you today xxx

[R0semary76]

It so hard to read this we have so much pain in our life and the only thing that heals it is time , we lost our baby at 19 weeks and it feels so very cruel , but with the love fromyour other half and family there is always hope and light at the end of the tunnel ... you are strong wonderful person who deserves a lot better ... just have to keep believing your time will come

All our positive thoughts and love go out to you.

[Fredaflintstone]

Thinking of you today xxx