Chemical pregnancy?

[Flossy85]

I think it might all be over already, had a little bit of browny/red spotting last night and done a frer test and its now Mega faint 😢😢😢 not looking forward to beta tomorrow. Cried all night and morning and now sat at work feeling absolutely awful.

[NDE1987]

I'm sorry your feeling sad hun, it might not be over. Just remain calm and wait for tomorrow. I know it's easier said than done. Could your clinic not see you today? X

[Flossy85 in reply to NDE1987]

I'm at work today and clinic is 3hrs drive away so couldn't have gone. Not holding out much hope 😢 x

[NDE1987 in reply to Flossy85]

Hunny a few days ago I was feeling very sad as I spotted before my test date, but the ladies on this forum gave me hope. Although it didn't work out for me I just want you to know that it may not be over! I know it's hard, just a few more hours until tomorrow arrives. I hope it works out well for you xxx

[Cinderella5]

Oh flossy I do hope not! Sending you a big cuddle & have my fingers crossed for you!!xx

[Flossy85 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thankyou hun, just feel so empty inside. Just awful waiting for bad news tomorrow X

[Heelsandhunters84]

A couple of things hun.... it's amazing how in these early stages the tests can vary in clearness, an extra amount of water or different times of day can make a big difference. Spotting and brown discharge can be quite normal and finally IF it is chemical you know that your embryo did implant there was just a reason it didn't carry on and that element gives you extra knowledge when you review or follow up.

Get bloods done if you can. I always ask for them from my GP.

You must be feeling Sh*t. Sorry hun. Xx

[Flossy85 in reply to Heelsandhunters84]

Thanks hun, yeah feeling mega crappy. Honestly thought we had finally done it on our 8th and last transfer. Iv tested 3times now at different times of the day and held Wee for hours and getting the same unfortunately 😪. This happened on our 6th attempt too and all other 6times didn't implant at all, thinking its all over for us 😢. Xx

[Heelsandhunters84 in reply to Flossy85]

Sorry sweet heart. I read your bio afterwards and realise you will know far more than me. I know you will take a tiny bit of comfort from the out pouring of love and support for you but no one can say or do anything to make it better. 😚

[Flossy85 in reply to Heelsandhunters84]

Thanks hun, unfortunately iv had a lot of heartache. Somehow this last one has really got to me, I think it's because it's our last try and not yet ready to give up but feel so lost now. Think it's going to take a long time to get past this. Yeah the support in here from all you lovely ladies over the years is amazing and I probably wouldn't have kept going as long as I have without it, it's out of my hands now. Xx

[Heelsandhunters84 in reply to Flossy85]

You know Flossy I always felt that it's a case of picking yourself up and shaking yourself down... but in the case of fertilty that goes straight out the window. I said openly to a friend yesterday that I can understand why people don't continue now. This is my third and yes it's been a bfp but after a really rocky few days, being admitted to hospital and other things I can truly understand the complete body blow this process is. Just let it all out and do whatever is right for you. Xx

[Hidden]

Flossy what a rollercoaster for you. Really hope it's not the case for you. Xx

[Flossy85 in reply to Hidden]

Thankyou, not looking good. Just feel terrible in limbo until tomorrow but most likely know it's not good xx

[MichM]

Oh I hope not 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻, thinking of you x x x

[Flossy85 in reply to MichM]

Thanks hun, I think it's bad news xx

[MichM in reply to Flossy85]

Your in my thoughts ❤️ x x x

[MichM in reply to Flossy85]

And I'm still preying for you x x x

[Saya85]

Oh flossy! I so hope that isn't true!

However I do agree that spotting and brown discharge can be perfectly normal. .. And poss affecting your results also.

Just try and keep the fluids up and be on bed rest if you can! It may be faint but still positive?

My test was negative and as white as white can be.... like heelsandhunters said- at least you know that it can implant. Maybe that will give you some comfort IF it's negative.

Praying for you either way xx

[Flossy85 in reply to Saya85]

Can spotting affect a pregnancy test? I've done 3 now (one last night, one this morning and one this afternoon) all three look almost negative, the line is barely visible now 😢😢 just cried all night and morning and unfortunately been stuck at work all day. Had a few mild cramps too. Blood has gone back to light brown spotting every now and again. This was our last go xx

[Saya85 in reply to Flossy85]

Oh I'm so sorry to hear that! Have you phoned your clinic??

I heard sometimes they can up your progesterone or something to try and stop bleeding... Worth a try as you were positive before

[CountryCat]

Oh Flossy, that is so upsetting!

Do NOT give up yet though - it could be anything, including a dud test, so try and hold out until tomorrow. I am sending all my love and hugs to you xxx

[Flossy85 in reply to CountryCat]

I've honestly cried so much just feel so upset. Iv done 3tests now and feel it's inevitable to be bad news tomorrow. Just feel like utter crap. I honestly thought our miracle had finally happened on our 8th and last attempt xx 😪😔

[Flossy85]

I don't suppose anyone here has experienced anything like this and it gone on to be ok? Looking for any shred of hope 😢 xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to Flossy85]

Wishing that I could offer you some! Thinking of you xx

[CountryCat]

I don't know what to say but am sending loads of hugs. I hope with all my heart that tomorrow brings good news. I will be thinking of you xx

[Sunshine09]

Keeping everything crossed for you 🤞❤💋

[72cloud9]

Everything crossed for u that it all still works out Hun! Big hugs xxx

[Tara123]

I got everything crossed for u hun atleast the line is still there don't give up hope 😊 little brown red spotting could actually be spotting and embedding good luck to u 🤞🤞 xx

[Daxi16]

O no can't believe this. Don't lose hope Hun spotting can be normal xx