Just wondering what your opinions are on midwife referral before scan with IVF clinic.
So last time I self referred to the midwives because I spoke to a doctor at my work who said I should refer early because they might want to keep a closer eye me.
However I went for my IVF 8 week scan and there was no heart beat. Went to EPAC etc and they didn't pass my details on to the midwives who phoned me a week later to book me in so in the end they didn't do any extra checks.
This time I'm a bit wary about referring myself as I feel I could jinx it but could they possibly do extra checks this time because of my history? And is leaving it til 8 weeks a little bit late?
Hope that makes sense!