So I haven't posted on here in ages as in the end we managed to conceive naturally even though we had started down regulation of cycle 2. So I don't feel as though I really belong here anymore as we didn't have an ivf pregnancy and I know what the infertility struggle is like for all you strong ladies and I don't want to put my bfp in people's faces. So I thought I would join a normal pregnancy forum but so don't belong there either as I just get so annoyed at reading people's stories of "oh I wasn't really trying. Wasn't really bothered but thought oh well I may as well keep it" and "I just can't quit smoking I've managed to get down to just 6 a day" people just really peeing me off and I want to yell at them all but I know that won't help either.
I feel in limbo somewhere between the fertile and infertile but not belonging to either. I just want to talk to someone else about their pregnancy and how they are finding it but haven't told friends and family yet so can't turn to them.
Where do I belong?