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Just when you are at your happiest

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Late last night we discovered our gorgeous ginger cat dead in our downstairs neighbours garden. We think she fell off the conservatory and broke her neck or back. She was still warm when we found her and we buried her tonight in our garden. It's like the universe has to shit on you from a great height when you get to a place of complete happiness. And now I'm petrified because I'm only 5 weeks and stress isn't good and I'm just waiting on something going wrong :-(.

On edge much!!

Sorry needed to rant. Hope everyone is well xx

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Aww love I am so sorry to read what's happened. That's tragic and also you must have had such a shock.

If it's any consolation it sounds like its been instant so I am sure she will not have suffered.

Please don't worry about your baby, it will be absolutely snug in there and you shouldn't have too long to wait now until you scan.

Sending you lots of love ❤❤ xx

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Daxi16

Sorry to hear this try not to get too stressed tho. Your kitty will be at the rainbow bridge now 🌈 xx

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Tugsgirl

So sorry 😐 I lost two fur babies in two weeks (my bunnies). I feel your pain 😞 xx

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MD123

Sorry for your loss xxx

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sanj76

Awww so so sorry to read this, what a loss. Can't imagine how you must be feeling right now, our thoughts eMate with you.....take care,

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Cinderella5

I'm so sorry to hear about you losing your little precious cat!! What a shock for you! Thinking of you!xx

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Aleelilook

Oh my god that's terrible, I'm so sorry, the universe is a frigging arse at times xxx

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Sprinkles86

Oh that's just awful! Pets are members of the family and it hurts so deeply when they leave us. You have done such a lovely thing burying her so she's close to you xxxx

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CE_88_14

Thanks for the replies everyone I just needed somewhere to vent my husband is in bits and I didn't want to put more on him :-( xx

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CountryCat

Terribly, terribly sorry to read this...it broke my heart!! We lost our ginger the same way 8 years ago...a broken spine due to a fall. I feel so for you. It is the loss of a precious and unique friend xx

Life just sucks sometimes...inexplicably and thoroughly :( Look after yourself and when you baby is older you can tell him or her about what a magnificent cat you once had.

Thinking of you 😘

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Violet5451

I'm really sorry to hear of your loss. We lost our cat a couple of months ago which devastated us. Don't stress about being upset... it's impossible not to be. Just go through it one day at a time and know it will be ok. Be kind to yourself- you are only human and this is a big loss. Lots of love and hugs xxx

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Amanda86

So sorry to hear this. I know how devastating it is to lose a pet ☹️ They're a huge part of our families!

Sending love your way xxx

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_MrsC

I'm so sorry! It's such a shock when you lose a much loved pet. I'm thinking of you. x

So sorry to hear this, it must have been such a shock and so upsetting. Big hugs xxx

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Jaky76

Oh how sad. Sending a big hug xxx

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N_M_10

Oh my goodness, you will be devastated. We lost our boy last year, completely know how you are feeling. Take care and the time to be sad. x

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Coracle

I am so so sorry. I have 3 cats, and reading your and Tugsgirls news, I am so sorry this has happened, especially right now. I cannot imagine how painful especially when going thru the ivf marathon.

Your ginger girl was such a beauty and you gave her a beautiful happy life. Asking for lots and lots of comfort for you xxx

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LHow81

😔 so sorry for your loss xx

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Georgina78

Oh no how awful, so sorry. Hope everything will be fine with your pregnancy xx

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burkeee

So sorry! As an owner of 4 cats and one dog I can imagine how stressful it is to lose one of your fur friend! It's like to lose family member. You need to be strong and care about your baby xxx wish you all the best!

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