Just got the letter through from our consultants appointment last week having been told other half has low sperm count. Seeing it all written down has just made me burst into tears. We knew his count was low 2 million but she has also said the motility is 6% I presume that's terrible too? Her letter actually say "less than 2 million per ml with motility of 6%. In light of severe oligozoospermia I think it would be very important for us to do further investigations" (hormone profile, carrier type, chromosome microdeletion and cystic fibrosis gene cgane) we knew they were doing that just looks so overwhelming on paper. She may have mentioned the 6% motility but we in such shock we may have missed it!
What's annoyed me is that his next sperm sample isn't until the end of June and the next appointment with consultant is Middle May so have to call them to put back the appointment so we have all results back.
I've not been too bad since finding out about the sperm. Been ok at work and was going to see my friends new born today (born the evening we found out about bad sperm!) but I just don't think I can, I know I'm just going to be an emotional wreck seeing her and just don't feel I want to feel like that right now? Can't really explain it I love her to bits and her little boy she already had but the thought of being upset when she's so happy I can't do.
Sorry for the rant guys hope you are all ok xx