Results meeting a huge disappointment

So went along to my results meeting this morning to find out what the next steps were for us only to be told our consultant was ill and hadn't reviewed our file before he went off sick. Therefore they didn't want to speculate what the next steps are. Feel so disheartened had been looking forward to this meeting to get some closure for 8 months!!! I know it's not his fault he's sick and they did promise to ring when he's back I just feel it was a complete waste of my morning and am still no further forward 😞 Xxx

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  • How frustrating for you 😩 x

  • How awful for you, I am so sorry :(

  • Noooo! Bec! I am sorry to hear this! That sucks! Did they reschedule with you? Maybe he can ring you and talk to you over the phone a bit sooner?

    If you like, next week we can chat about the appointment, as it might help to talk about it xx

  • They will ring next week when he's back and let me know what next steps are but feel really cheated as over the phone you won't get to ask as many questions as face to face and also it'll just be me on the phone and I'd have appreciated my husband been there too. I'm completely baffled why they didn't cancel our meeting and rearrange another we both took time off work for no reason 😞 I went on a big shopping spree on my lunch break to try to make myself feel better! Xxx

  • I also went shopping too! I bought a whole load of new stationary!

    You definitely should request an appointment regardless. That is why you pay your taxes! So you can actually speak to and meet the doctor! xx

  • The waiting lists to get appointments at my hospital are 4 months at least 😞 I'll ask though!

  • Oh bec how frustrating for you its just so annoying isn't it hard in there you'll have your results soon enough xx

  • To be honest i really get worked up when something like this happenes when app are cancelled or scan are cancelled when thungs dont go to plan . It really throws me off the wagan n i get very depressed angery and eat rubbish. However i have learned the hard way that i have to be patient and i cant control things and things do chamge and cant be the same or how i wanted them to be. Its heartbreaking. Im soo sorry ur going tbrough this stresfull time. Lots of hugs for you.xxzz

  • Ah thanks I threw a bit of a hissy fit in the car to my husband then went back to work and acted normal as I had too! Then threw another wobbly in the evening but then went to bed and have moved on since 😀 You're right and my husband is also ever the diplomat- there's nothing we can do and hopefully it's only another week until we get answers xxxx

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