In 1 week I will know.....

[Bec-A]

In 1 weeks time I go for my results meeting after all the scans and sperm tests. I'm so nervous have no idea what they are going to say. They are either going to say it's scientifically impossible for us to have kids, go away and keep trying or the ideal scenario is they will tell us what's wrong and offer us treatment. I know everyone is different but anyone else got experience and tips for what to expect at this meeting. I'm so scared 😳 xxx

[Hidden]

Hello Bec-A I have had my last blood test and awaiting a scan on the 18th May and my husband is to do another sperm test on that day too. By June 21st we have our meeting with a consultant to see what the plan is too. We are trying not to think about it too much and are hoping for some answers as to why we aren't getting pregnant. All we have been told that at this consultant meeting is about going through all of the tests with both of us and explain what our options are. Sorry I don't have much else to tell you in terms of experience but we are trying to stay positive it is very very hard at times though. But I believe that everything will work out in the end and they will come up with a treatment plan for us. Good luck with everything! x

[Bec-A in reply to Hidden]

Ah thanks sounds exactly the same place we are in. The waiting has been horrendous we ve been having tests since October and after each test they won't tell us what the result was. So feel like we are walking in next week completely blind to what the outcome will be! Good luck to you too xxx

[Hidden in reply to Bec-A]

I am totally with you on that one we hate the wait! this is our second round of fertility tests. I paid privately for a hycosy which i had done in January and was told i would be super fertile which got my hopes up, however it did confirm that my tubes were not blocked and it confirmed my double womb. We are getting a little fed up of the waiting too and not actually getting anything back. I am beginning to think its a male factor as the only results that are low are his motility. Hope you get your questions answered it will be a relief! x

[Bec-A in reply to Hidden]

Yes the wait is awful They have told me I have a heart shaped womb but they've assured me that's not the reason I'm not conceiving. So starting to think it's the sperm too as my husbands first test showed low motability. One good thing is we ve been saving like crazy the last 8 months as once results are in, if it doesn't start moving quicker we have the option to go private. Crazy it has to come to this though 😞 Xxx

[Cymru_girl84-85]

I know how you must be feeling, our 'finding out' appointment was at the beginning of March 2017 having first gone to the GP in September 2016 to start having the tests; the waiting is so hard!

Although I was sure that something was up, the news I received was completely unexpected. Fortunately, I had no plans for after the appointment so could go home. So that would be my main tip, clear your diary for the rest of the day if at all possible to give yourself time to process the news, good or bad (but hopefully good!)x

[Bec-A in reply to Cymru_girl84-85]

I wasn't sure whether to go back to work after as if it's bad news it might be worse to be on my own. My husband has to go back to work. Similarly we ve waited 8 months for results. Hope it's not bad news... xxx