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We tested today at home before we went to the clinic and we got a BFN. So when they told us there it was negative we weren’t surprised. How ever I had blood taken as well and they have since phoned to say there is a trace of the pregnancy hormone. It should be at about 30 and mine is only 13. She said not to get my hopes up (which they definitely arnt, I feel so deflated) however I have to go back for more blood tests and she said I have to still be careful with things.

Surely this is too low to end up being anything viable.

I wish they had never rang, I had got my head around it being negative.

Xxx

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I would advise the same as the clinic, take care of yourself, be careful and wait for further bloods.

It must be awful to be in limbo and I can only imagine how you're feeling, probably nervous and scared.

You never know, don't give up yet xxx

It's very hard but hang on in there. When they test again in a couple of days hopefully you will see the results you wanted today. Xxx

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Blondyboo

Good luck pray for a slow burner but it could be a chemical, really hope it’s not xxx

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Rfletcher in reply toBlondyboo

Thank you. I think it’s a chemical as well. The nurse seems to think it implanted but then stopped 😢. Xx

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Blondyboo in reply toRfletcher

I had one as well heart breaking to get the news but then nothing. Take comfort in that you were pregnant and it did start to work just this was not the time for you. Keep going try again and you will eventually get one that sticks xx

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