Hi everyone again, I'm really really struggling to come to terms with the news I had yesterday, I've barely had any sleep because I just can't stop thinking about it.... I need some advice on if it's normal that all 4 of my blastocysts died?
Basically when I went in for my lining scan, the embryologist said to me and my partner that 'she recognised our names because she remembered that our embryos were really good quality' and that she's expecting the first or maybe even the 2nd embryo to thaw. I can't help thinking something went wrong on their behalf? Is that possible?
I've felt really fobbed off on this cycle too, they said to me I would be receiving the scratch this time, they forgot about that and I only realised a few days ago when I googled when the scratch takes place and it says it needs to be before your cycle.
Also, when I went in for my lining scan, I went to the toilet for a wee before hand and then when a lady I'd never seen before scanned me, she said 'oooo your bladder is very full, can you not feel it?!.. can you go empty it'... I found it so strange but I got up, got dressed and went again, nothing came out so I went back, got undressed and back on the table and she said 'ooooo yes it's still very full' then she said 'oops I'm sorry it's just the hydrosalphinx in your tubes' .... how can a doctor get that wrong?
I'm 23 years old now, I'm taking things in the best I can but I still don't know a lot about this whole process and I just feel like no one is helping me at all,
😞 sorry for the rant, just need some advice/answers xxxxxxx