BFN OTD

[MariannaB]

Thank you everyone for all the support,today is official test day and just got BFN 😩 like I was so sure about this . Will call the clinic to stop medication and say goodbye to another failed implantation. embryologist and the doctor was so positive about saying that was so great chances after histeroscopy done , endometriosis cleaned, clipped Fallopian tubes, antibiotics doxycycline one month before transfer, beautiful embryo, great lining and so still failed implantation 😩. Don’t know what else to try / do or what is wrong with me . Felling such a failure 🥺, how is possible do do 4 transfers fresh and frozen and all to fail implantation is the question that is keep running in my head. Sorry for such a long moan , I am devastated, scared to try again ( we have a last embryo in the freezer , I don’t remember the grade but I know was a very poor quality) .

[XOXO13]

Ow, I’m so sorry. I know how difficult repeated negative tests can be. The only thing you can do is ask the doctor what you can do next; are there further tests or investigations? Is it time for a new clinic for a fresh perspective? For now though, take care of yourself and allow your time to process this 💜 xx

[MariannaB in reply to XOXO13]

Thank you , will definitely ask about any more investigation or something . I did actually thought about changing the clinic because I feel like is kind of not professional to be told every time the same thing , “ is happening, is not guarantee, is not that many times failed 😣 .

[XOXO13 in reply to MariannaB]

It’s one of the reasons we chose to move clinics because we just needed a fresh perspective, sometimes that helps with mindset too xx

[Cinderella5]

Awww I'm so sorry, it's hard getting lots of negatives. I'm not sure if you have heard of an ERA to check when your best time for implantation is after being on progesterone. Might be something to have a look at but it's not cheap....as nothing is in IVF. Hugs.xx

[MariannaB in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you , I did hear about ERA , not sure how is done or what exactly is but I will definitely ask if is possible to try to do for next transfer, .

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

HI marianna. Oh dear! So sorry to hear this, and like the others today, I do hope you've got plenty of support. Perfect everything and still a negative, which can only add to your frustration. I suppose you've tried adding low dose soluble aspirin /heparin to the mix to ensure good blood flow to the womb and lining. A hysteroscopy might be beneficial if not already done. Thinking of you. Diane

[MariannaB]

Thank you, didn’t had soluble aspirin, will ask my doctor to try add on next time and if need more tests or anything . Done hysteroscopy 2 months before transfer, everything was alright,

[Redsequin]

So so sorry lovely. This journey can be so unfair!! You are not a failure: you are so strong and amazing for persevering through such bad luck. I really hope your consultants come up with some different things to try next. Xxx

[MariannaB in reply to Redsequin]

Thank you 💕

[Boo718]

Hi. I’m so sorry reading this. It’s just heart breaking. Did you get the embryos pgs tested? We had 4 embryos 3 amazing quality and 1 crap quality. The 3 amazing quality were all abnormal. The crap one was normal. We were gutted but so glad we checked them or we would have wasted 3 transfers xxx I hope your ok xxx

[MariannaB]

Thank you , will try more test next time . I do consider to change the clinic

[FrancyItaly]

I am ever so sorry to read this hun. Have you had your NK cells tested? Tyroid? Any genetic mutation? Sending you lots of love and I hope you will be able to try very soon 🙏🏻💕