Waiting for Call 😱

Today is meant to be my FET transfer date and sitting here waiting for call to saw my little Embie survived the thaw. Why is everything about this whole process just so hard? Yesterday had 3 of my close friends message me one after the other to say they were all 12 weeks. You happy for them but just so heartbreaking as you want to be there so badly too....

Sorry for rant, but this forum the only place where there are people who fully understand ,

Sending you all love xx

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  • Thinking of you honey!


  • Thanks Bethany X

  • Happened to me; Having called on time and not being able to speak to anyone I ended up waiting 40 minutes later than the time I was told to call! Then they didn't call me back, I was desperately waiting and so I called back again! The things that went through my head! 😒 Anyway all was well.. Try not to panic, I know it's easier said than done and you will, but try not to sit there thinking the worst like I did. Good luck with your transfer today πŸ€ x

  • Thanks so much Tugsgirl.. I hate the way this process turns you into a lunatic . Like you I'm thinking , what if they didn't survive the thaw that's why they haven't called .. But r right , that's no use

    How are you doing , are you still feeling crampy? X

  • It was more on and off yesterday whereas the days before it was most of the time. No more pink since Tuesday and no cramps so far today. Honestly it could go either way πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ X

  • So glad to hear the pink gone so that's something , please god it was the result of implantation and the cramping just the meds.

    The pessaries made me feel really crampy last time and I got a BFP ( ended up ectopic πŸ™ˆ)

    Really wishing this is your time , hang in there , not long now , you have done so well xx

  • Thank you 😊 and like I said good luck today, it will be fine 😊 X

  • Awwww honey anxious times indeed..try not to think of your friends and focus only on your snow baby..good luck xxxx

  • Thanks so much Vic, your right need to stay positive X

  • Wishing you all the best. Hopefully you'll get that BFP soon.

  • Thanks so much pm 27, hoping for second time lucky xx

  • It's so frustrating - we just have to play the waiting game at every step of the process.

    Good luck - fingers crossed for you πŸ‘

  • Thanks so much helsroo, you really do need the patience of a saint to survive the journey ! πŸ˜‡

  • Hi,

    It's good to have people to talk too.

    We had our transfer yesterday and I was worried in the morning too (we went in and they thawed out ok, we were so pleased) but I'm sure all we be ok and hopefully it will be our time, I known how it feels, my sister and my husbands sister were pregnant close to one another and I've had many friends pregnant and yes we are always happy for them but we just want our time and our family together x keep hope x

  • Thanks so much for your kind words Kelly and so glad to hear your transfer went well. Please god we ll be on the 2WW together.

    My clinic 2 hours away so they said they call us before we make the journey .. So hopefully it's just thawing away perfectly xx

  • Hi,

    Yes I'm sure it is and wishing you lots of luck and I agree hopefully it's our time.

    We can't help but just think about it and worry about it all the time.

    Take care of yourself and relax xx

  • Thank you Kelly , feel better already after off loading to you lovely ladies X

  • hope you got the call & your transfer went well today 😘

    it's so painful to hear pregnancy updates from friends & family - just remember, they are all rooting for you too, as are we.

    stay strong πŸ’ͺ🏻✨

  • Certainly did! We just on way home now so the 2WW begins ,

    Thanks for all your support this morning ladies , sanity amongst the madness ! X

  • Hi Raglee I hope everything has gone well and you've joined to 2ww gang! Welcome to hell! pahahaha I'm kidding I'm kidding! Sort of!!! hahahaha Sending love x x x

  • Ha ha , that made me chuckle! I certainly did make it to the awful and amazing place that is the dreaded 2WW, hoping for us both this time round the lucky one. πŸ’šβ˜˜β˜˜

    You ve done so well , not long now! Xx πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

  • Hi Raglee how are you doing? X

  • Hi Tugsgirl, thanks so much for the message? How are you doing pet? When r scan? Hope it's soon so you can have some piece of mind , another hurdle passed.

    I'm doin ok, 12dpt so as you can imagine now planking myself as D day is so soon. Praying that this FET worked and not sure how I'm going to cope if it didn't but trying to stay positive which is impossible !! You know the drillπŸ™ˆ

    My official test day is Friday which is actually 15dpt so I'm gonna test on Thurs evening as school teacher so if it's negative not sure I won't be able to keep it together infront of the children!

    Just praying so so much that this is our time , like we all are on here eh? Hope your doing ok xxx

  • I'm ok. I've gone round the bend and back and met myself in the middle somewhere! 😜 I think it would be fair to describe this stage as purgatory, somewhere between Heaven and Hell. Scan on Monday for me πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ» 🀞 It can't come soon enough. I obsess when I cramp and obsess when I don't. Basically I'm just obsessed.

    Anyway I'll be thinking of you Thursday night! Really hope you get your bfp! πŸ€ Nothing would make me happier than to see every woman on here have their dreams come true! I wish ivf was a πŸ’― certainty and that everyone could get their healthy babies 9 months down the line. Sadly we know that's not how it works.

    Good luck!! 😊 πŸ™πŸ» πŸ€ πŸ‘πŸ» Xx

  • Thanks so much tugsgirl! I think you hit the bail on the head! It's like a form of mental torture! But I just keep thinking if we get our little baby in our arms , with that edible baby smell one day ,, it will be all worth it!!!

    ( we may remind them at their 21st party tho!!)


  • Omg. I'll be reminding them every day! In fact I might start now lol πŸ˜‚ xx

  • Wishing you all the best lovely xxxx

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