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Another friend pregnant. I can't take it anymore!!!

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I just don't know how to stay positive anymore!!!!! I have 0% energy left for being happy for other people.

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72cloud9

Oh Hun, know that feeling oh so well.sending love & hugs xxx

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ditsy999

Hi Seabird . .. I know how hard it is . .I have the same Issue. All my friends have been having kids, whilst I have been struggling to conceive. I have learnt to deal with it as we hang out with our friends and their kids a lot. Nobody can understand how you feel apart from another person who is going through the exact same thing, not even our husbands to a degree. I am very happy for all my friends who have kids and who are pregnant, but it makes me sad that I can't have the same happiness they have. Stay positive and calm, it will happen for you one day . .just believe and don't give up !! Big hugs xx

No wise words but just wanted to say we all feel your pain and fully understand where your coming from.

Sending u huge hugs x

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seabird85

Thanks all. We all know how awful it is, I used to talk to my sister about these things but guess what...She's pregnant!!!!

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Kat80

I know the feeling oh so well. Life can seem so unfair at times. xx

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pm27

It's so hard to hear pregnancy news. Sometimes it feels like you're the only one who can't get or stay pregnant. Thankfully this forum is a great source of support. I hated the horrid combination of jealousy that someone else is pregnant but you're not and happiness for them. If they are a good friend and are aware of your situation they hopefully can appreciate that it is difficult news to hear/read.

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Lucylove

Oh love, we hear you loud and clear. My best friend got pregnant and just had her baby two days ago- and I've basically been simmering in resentment and jealousy for the last nine months! would feel annoyed if she wore a tight top, the decent thing to do would be to wear baggy stuff all the time.. ;) you'll deal with it best you can and I've learned it's ok to not deal with it well sometimes. a good venting session every now and then helps, and you know we're all here for you for that! X

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