Hello again :)

[beauty1984]

I've not really been on here in a while as I went through a difficult patch (I'm sure many of you can understand) but I'm going to try my hardest to get it together and try and help and support all you lovely ladies. I have had 1 failed ivf cycle and due to start again in September so will probably be needing some advice myself. For all of you on this difficult roller coaster I wish you all the luck in the world ❤️

[lauren3189]

good luck with your next cycle xx

[beauty1984 in reply to lauren3189]

Thank you Lauren it's nice to have support through this journey thank you for replying xx

[Rainbow_86]

Hi I'm currently in the 2ww in my first cycle. Just wanted to wish you the best of luck xxxx

[beauty1984 in reply to Rainbow_86]

Thank you Rainbow

I wish you all the luck in the world during your 2ww I wish for all of us to get what we so desperately want. ❤️ good luck xx

[Rainbow_86 in reply to beauty1984]

Thank you. I never realised how emotionally hard the process is... until I've just been through it.....

I hope this time is your time. Wishing you lots of luck xxx

[A-Jay-]

Good luck.. i also had 1st failed icsi this month.. looking forward for my 2nd round.. 😊

[beauty1984 in reply to A-Jay-]

Thank you

I'm sorry your icsi failed, hopefully 2nd time round is your time 😊 xx

[Hidden]

Hi lovely, good to see you back 😊 wishing you all the best for your upcoming cycle xxxxx

[beauty1984 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you 😊 xx

[E_05]

Hiya, I think we all go through the periods of needing time 'out' but welcome back 🙂 wishing you lots of luck for September xx

[beauty1984 in reply to E_05]

It's good to be back, just the response from everyone is so overwhelming 😊 thank you xx

[Lamorna80]

Good luck. I'm starting my meds in Sept too so will no doubt be glued to this site for support. 🤞🤞

[beauty1984 in reply to Lamorna80]

Good luck Lamorna I will make sure I follow your progress, hopefully we will both be lucky 😊 xx

[Amanda86]

Welcome back. Sometimes some time out is just what we need and then we're ready to start again 💪. I'll have my 2nd FET transfer (third cycle) in September. Good luck with your 2nd cycle 🍀🤞 xxx

[beauty1984 in reply to Amanda86]

Thank you Amanda good luck with your FET I hope all goes well xx

[Amanda86 in reply to beauty1984]

Thanks 🙂 Xxx

[Hidden]

I had my 1st failed ivf cycle around 1 week ago. How long did you wait in between?

it is definately a difficult path no matter what stage you are at x

[beauty1984 in reply to Hidden]

I would have started my second cycle straight away if I could have, however I ended up having my tube unblocked and then I was put on clomid for 6 months, went back in June after clomid didn't work and the earliest appointment they had was September 22nd. I had my last ivf in June 2016 so it's been just over a year in total.

I'm really sorry your ivf cycle failed, it's so difficult to go through, are you wanting to try again straight away or do you want to wait? Xx

[Hidden in reply to beauty1984]

We were never planning on another as we just don't have the money. When i told the in-laws the result they offered to pay for a cycle.

I said no but its something i need to discuss with my husband when our feelings have settled.

It took a huge toll physically on me which I didn't expect.

You are very brave, you have been through alot. Im nearly 37 husband is 43 and we each have a factor so i think the odds are against us xx

[beauty1984 in reply to Hidden]

One thing I've realised through all of this is that we are strong, no matter what life throws at us we pick ourselves up and try again, everything is still so raw for you so just take a time out and discuss it again when you're ready. If you feel one cycle was enough then that's absolutely your choice. Money is such a worry because of how expensive it is, I was lucky because I've been saving for a deposit on a house and me and my OH have decided to use that for another cycle instead so this may be our last one.

My OH and I are both 33 and I originally had a blocked tube but have since had it unblocked so technically speaking there should be nothing stopping us conceiving naturally but after 6 years we still don't know why we can't. It's very frustrating. Part of me wishes I had a solid reason why then I could try and process it better but not knowing is the hardest. I'm determined to try again though.

It's god to talk through your feelings so if you need any help or advice then I'm here if you need xx

[Hidden in reply to beauty1984]

Thank you. I hope its a success this time for you both x

[Hidden]

Hey don't give up Hun x I had s failed cycle in June and thought my world had ended . Have just started treatment again this month so fingers. Crossed all goes well x good luck x

[beauty1984 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you Eh I'm determined to carry on and stay positive.

I'm sorry you had a failed cycle, it's such a heartbreaking thing to go through. That's good to get an appointment so quick to start again, I wish I had started sooner but NHS waiting lists are quite long xx

[Hidden in reply to beauty1984]

I was given an appointment as soon as I had my final scan to say baby was no more x you could always ask them to put you in the cancellation list too . Good luck and don't give up x

[Daxi16]

Good luck beauty xx

[Hidden]

Good luck for your next cycle ❤️🤞🏼💕🙏🏼 hoping and praying it works for you next time round. I'm in the middle of my first ever 2ww and this group has been fantastic for support xxx

[AmyA19]

I've had a failed cycle too and we go to a new clinic in September. I shall keep my fingers crossed for you 🤞🤞💜💜 xxx

[Hormomalmess]

Welcome back. Wishing you lots of luck for round two xxx

[NsKaz]

Welcome back. My first round failed too. Think I'll be starting treatment again end of September. Wishing you all the luck in the world xxx