Why they keep changing my app

[bibi_16]

Hineveryone im in not a good mood today came home from.work to.find a letter saying my app has been changed now i have to wait a further 4 weeks its due mid april they have changed to end of may they did this before and i said nothing and now they have done it again n im not happy. Just feel so angery. I dont know what to do.

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Aww hunni that's terrible. I'm so sorry they have done this to you

I don't blame you for being angry I would be too! It's not fair to change appointments without giving a reason,

I would (when you are calmer) phone and ask why they have put back appointment. And I would lay it on thick and say how stressed delaying this appointment has made you-in the NHS he who shouts louder gets-he who doesn't gets disregarded. It's not right but it is how it is. Could you ask to go on a cancellation list?

They don't get that we make goal plans and when they change things it unsettles us.

Sending lots of love your way.

❤️

[bibi_16 in reply to Hidden]

Hello jess thanks for ur reply. I feel so much better honestly that u reoled i feel like someone is on mu side. Jess i finished my round two clomid but im on af now cycle day 3. Had a good cry yesterfay. I didnt want to take the clomid this cycle becuz my gp before treatment sent me for a blood work and she said it is likely that i did ov but months i may and some i dont. But i still took the clomid. Jess im very scared honestly if this doesnt work i have one more go at clomid then ivf and i dont want to go through ivf im so scared honestly. I dont know much about it but ive read theres all theses drugs i have to take but why do i need to take al these drugs my tubes r fine my lineing is fine im ov on clomid sperm is normal. I had a good cry yesterday becuz i didnt want ivf becuz i was scared its going to stop af altogather. Jess have u experianced heavier af and shorter time my af is heavier but it only lasts 3 day before clomid it use to last 4-5 day. Xxxx. I have rung up pals and complained about this app change but they were closed so left a voicemail. But now im calmer ithink its better if i call pals and cancel the complaint. Becuz my last go at clomid will be feb and if no good news comes from feb to may it eill give my body to relax so its not al that bad i guess but its just the delay that upset me. .thanks so much jess for ur reply i just needed someone to understand.xxx

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It's so difficult and yes my cycles have changed since clomid.

For one thing they are longer -32 days instead of 28.

I spot 2 days before period.

I have 2 really heavy days.

Then one day of spotting.

I used to have 4 days of spotting, 3 days of really heavy painful bleeding and 1 day of lighter bleeding and 2 days of spotting. Yes they were longer and made me anaemic-I take ferrous sulphate amazing stuff!

I think sometimes you get pushed and when going through treatment is hard enough but when others are rude or change appointments you are bound to see red! 😡👊🏻I'm the same!!'

I think it's just as well it wasn't open- might have made things difficult for you at your clinic. I'm thinking of you and how to make it better for you-they deserved it no question about it but it may make things tricky at clinic-in an ideal world it shouldn't but we are not living in an ideal world. 👎🏻

I withdrew my complaint-over the weekend I had a long conversation with my hubby and we both agreed to drop the complaint-as we were concerned we would be treated differently and at the end of the day we need these people on our side to help us have our baby.

It's not right but sometimes you have to ask yourself if it's worth it and what the consequences will be-if you can live with them then go ahead chick. And I'd fully support your decision 🤔

I'm sure the clomid is working and the longer it is your system the better it works. You should be able to have a total of 6 months of clomid. Clinics aren't allowed to issue any more-as there is a slight risk of cancer and the chances of falling after 6 months isn't that high.

Having treatment fail is really hard. I've had four failed cycles and it's been so emotionally draining. I didn't expect it to hit me so hard. I understand why you are upset. I'm so sorry it hasn't happened yet for you. I'm sure your time is coming soon hang in there lovely lady.

As I had such a bad reaction to my 4th round my consultant ordered me to stop. I have asked if I can re start after this cycle-he may still say no. It was a bad reaction-I have a cyst and my left ovary is enlarged to over 23 cc it's huge 😳 GP says it's although it is very large it's not big enough to show possible OHSS. Fingers crossed consultant agrees. Ekk! I think if I respond like that to clomid then god knows how I'll react to IVF drugs 😷

I can understand why you are scared to have IVF-I'm the same. I hate needles!!!!

But you know what? We haven't got to that point yet. So let's not worry ourselves over it-we don't know how things may pan out. You have every chance of falling on clomid 😘

You are a strong lady you can do this 😊

❤️

[bibi_16]

Awww jess ur a superstar ur a brillaint frnd and support . Ur so sweet and kind you made me feel so relaxed and after reding ur reply i feel like yes we still have a chace at this. I have hope now. I had given upthis afternoon but still took clomid. Your right it will make things for me akward if i take the complaint further but i will call the clinic and ask why they hve changed my appo. Ill cancel the complaint on monday. Ur a great person your very goodat making ppl feel relaxed and at ease. I have my fingers crossed foryou. Will be thinking of you. Lotsss of love .xxx

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Hi sweetie just thought I'd check in to see how you are doing.

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