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Hi girls

Just another update.....

Bad news I'm afraid,test day today and what I expected BFP.

Looks like I have my period.....😞

Taking today off work as a bit upset.

That was our second fresh cycle with no frozen embryos.

Going to concentrate on being happy,having fun the next wee while.

Maybe a career change.....

The world is my oyster right ?? 😊

Good luck to all the girls out there with their journey πŸ€

Thanks for all the love and support!!

This form is amazing ☺️☺️ Xxxx

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So sorry it didn't work.

But admire your strength and think it's amazing how you've turned this into positive situation. Think you should put you first.

Sometimes that gets forgotten in all this.

I have gone for a career change too-I am studying supporting and teaching level 3-should be completed in a year and I volunteer twice a week at school βœ…

I got fed up with with thinking I can't do blah blah coz we are in the middle of trying for a baby and I thought sod it - I matter too.

All the best with everything. You go girl! Hope it brings you happiness 🌈 πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’• x

So sorry it hasn't worked, it's heartbreaking when you go through a cycle and get a bfn.

Great attitude though and yes the world is your oyster, do what makes you happy and in time I am sure you will come up with the next plan.

Take care xxx

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cleqwer

i feel you girl! i have been through 3 bfn, one resulted in m/c. now as I didn't stop trying and continued I feel like I have been blessed for my attempts and now everything went well. I have the only thing to say is that you have to keep your positive mood and keep trying! It is the most important thing, being on the forums like this for sometime it definitely gave me the feeling that you definitely have to keep trying it is important and even vital because even if you give up mentally it won't work..

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Sunny_skies

I am so sorry Hun. However I am glad you are looking on the positive side and looking for things to occupy your mind. If you need to grieve, please allow yourself to because it will help clear your mind even more.

Take sometime away from ivf and focus on yourself.

Wishing you all the best. x

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Missy_22

So sorry to hear this! Glad your taking time out to look after yourself. Take care big hugs xxx

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nicknick

I am sorry it hasn't work, wish y dreams come true xx

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Dolly8

Sending my best wishes! Xxx

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Tugsgirl

Sorry to hear it. Great positive attitude though! x

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katya38

Really sorry to hear that it's heartbreaking xx

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Raglee

So so sorry to read your news. Really admire your positive attitude. Be kind to yourself x x x

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72cloud9

So sorry Hun, sending hugs X

Ps. My career change was going from service advisor in hectic motor trade to self employed dog sitter! Love it!! Xxx

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DC13

So sorry to hear your news. Take some time out for yourself and partner. Sending you a big hug

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MommaBear16

So sorry to read this... take care of yourself x x x

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