Does anybody see a therapist to help them cope/understand?
Does it help? Do you go alone or with a partner?
I seem to always be having dark days, to myself, no one else knows it's everyday I'm sad because I'm so good at being 'normal'.
Just a little lost. Thanks in advance X X
Yes I see a counsellor and find it very helpful. Your clinic should be able to refer you to a counsellor specialising in fertility. Or use this link to find a local one itsgoodtotalk.org.uk It will also help to talk to the people around you if you can. It is okay to be sad about it.
Thank you! I shall look at the link, thank you!
Hello! Yes I've been seeing one through my clinic and it has helped me so much, they really are excellent. Good luck xx
I also went to see a counsellor for a little while. I had to pay privately though and it cost so much that I couldn't continue. I don't feel like I want to tell my husband how down I feel because I don't want to burden him with it so I thought the counselling was really useful. This forum is also very useful, lots of people to talk to who really understand what you're going through xxxxxx
Hi, my husband and I have been on this journey for 4 years with no luck so far. After my 3rd failed IVF I went to one counselling session (was offered for free as part of the NHS funded treatment). I was very sceptical first but am glad I went. The counsellor obviously won't have any magical answers but she gave me some very helpful suggestions (for example I was always obsession over the fact that I might never have children and how awful this was etc - she said the catastrophe scenario is just not very helpful and it is more helpful for me to take one step at a time and not get so caught up in negative/depressed thinking). I haven't been back since but the one session was actually worthwhile. It sounds like you are keeping a lot of thoughts and feelings to yourself, it might help you to speak to a counsellor. All the best !
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