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Update on 4some ( 23/10/2016) ,sFGR (selective fetal growth restriction) and laser surgery.

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Hi guys!

I thought to up date those who is following our story as last time I did it was 1 month ago.

I am 20 weeks tomorrow(Monday 24 October) and size of a house.

Since I haven't had any morning sickness what I ve been doing constantly during this pregnancy is putting on weight !

So before starting IVF (ICSI) I was just under 80 kg and now 100 kg...

Im sure( and hope) its all water!

Im feeling fine and even better since I stopped working 3 weeks ago. Unfortunately I have tendency of not sleeping through the night and seems 2a.m. -5a.m. is the time of struggle...

I cant really feel proper kicks yet but little flatters only when lying down on one or another side and to be honest I have no idea which baby /babies doing it.

So as most of you know im carrying 2 sets of identical twins which is a high risk pregnancy by itself but since sometime we realised that both sets might be developing TTTS due to discrepancies in sizes of babies in each set. So we ve been shifted from having scans every other week to every week...

So 2d set (Boys) doing not too bad now and doctors hoping it will go that way. Babies have 14-17% size discrepancies but share equal size of placenta.

However 1st set (Girls) are always been more worry since day 1 as it was obvious not only size discrepancies but unequal sharing of placenta. Couple of weeks ago size discrepancy shifted to 30% and level of amniotic fluid in the smallest girl sack went really low. She was diagnosed with sFGR type 2 and last Thursday we ve been told that she is not doing very well and will be dead within week or so...

The problem is with identical twins they not only share same placenta but vessels which connect one to another and when one twin is unwell/dead another one starting to develop same symptoms and basically die too.

In my case as I carry 4 babies and have 2 placentas one of the placentas( with girls in it) is right under another ( boys in this one) .Even though boys wont be affected if both girls become unwell or die the position of placenta ( close to the cervix) will make it impossible to carry whole pregnancy .

Anyway before I bore you to death with the details in nutshell it looked like that if we leave thing with out surgery we would loose whole pregnancy ...

So decision was made to go ahead with laser surgery (performed by prof K.Nicolaides in Kings College Hospital) to separate girls vessels (connecting them to each other).

As scary (and painful) this experience was it was amazing to be able to see their little feet, hands , tiny nails and little lips through the camera!

Medicine is amazing thing!

So we don't know what outcome will be and of course we are hoping for the best outcome possible to have 4 healthy babies by the end of this pregnancy we still need to pray as now that 10% of survival for or smallest girl only in God's and nature's hands!

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katya38

Oh my goodness that is such a stressful ordeal for you. Really hope all your precious babies are ok. Keep us up to date xx

Omg your such a strong lady and hppefully your babys will be as strong as you are. Love reading your updates as i keep hoping everything turns out positive for you.

I will keep my fingers and toes crossed all four babies will be healthy. Xx

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Thank you!

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emzlou25

OMG this is such a hard time for u and ur husband ive been trayinf for u and ur 4 babys from day 1 as u no and will continue to..by God grace all 4 of ur babys will be born and safe..i pray that God maked this this operation to happen inorder to help ur little girl..God bless u and ur babys my prayers are with u always x x x

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pritsko2011 in reply toemzlou25

Thank you for your kind words and prayers! Xxxxx

Wow amazing update so much going on, wishing you all the very best xxxx

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Cinderella5

Oh my goodness, what an emotional time for you! I was up and down just reading that! I'm crossing everything for you guys, such an amazing journey that you are all on! I am willing both sets of your beautiful twins on!! All the very best my lovely!!xx

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NDE1987

Hey Hun!! Just wanted to wish you the best and pray for your little babies. Xx

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vic77

You are so so brave..wishing you and your 4 beautiful babies loads of love and luck xxx

Sending you a massive hug. Praying and hoping all are well. You're a strong brave lady💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

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Clairol

Hope everything goes well xx

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Daisy-Mae

Thank you for the update. We are all here for you and praying your little ones get stronger every day. Like you said, medicine is an amazing thing and we just have to trust the doctors and have faith. Sending love and strength to you and your four little ones xx

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misswinky34

🙏🙏🙏🙏 and hugs for you and your babies my lovely xxxx

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Dreams1982

Your story has always amazed me and we are sending love and prayers for all of your little miracles xxx

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pritsko2011

Thank you guys for your replies! Duch an imazing community here of people who fo understand! Xxxxx

Woao, what a story...I will be praying for you all and wish that all babies beat the odds and come through healthy🍀👐.

I can only imagine what you must be going through but from your post you sound strong and very optimistic which is the best way forward.

I am just 14wks pregnant (twins) and grateful every day. They are non identical and I feel they have better chances of success but still every day is a worry (following so many miscarriages and an etopic).

With your case there's so much going on and I admire your strength. I will be thinking of you and praying that all works out well.

Best of luck and keep strong and positive x

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pritsko2011 in reply to

Thank you and good luck with your pregnancy! Xxxxx

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Daisy14

So good to read your updates, glad you're doing ok and are in a good frame of mind.

Sounds like you are being really well cared for and you can't ask for more than that.

I continue to think of you and have everything crossed for you and your hubs, your boys and your girls.

Xxx

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pritsko2011 in reply toDaisy14

Thank you lovely! Xxxxx

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Katm123

Wow what a journey. Everything crossed for you all.xxx

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WhatAwait

Wow - 2 boys and 2 girls! What a handful! I hope everything works out for you in the end . What an amazing story that is. I'll definitely look out for updates.

Best of luck to you all!

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lovewinspain

amazing little 4....wish u good luck....

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Hi pritsko2011. Gentle hugs to you and xxxx's for little ones as always. Diane

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Missy_22

Oh my goodness what a story!! Stay strong and calm and all the best to you and your wonderful four babies xxx

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Jaky76

Have been wondering how you were doing...Positive vibes coming your way..loads of love xxx

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misswinky34

How are you getting on with your little bundles? ❤️😊🙏

Hey honey

How are all the babies and you?

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