I truly hope this post does not upset anyone. I came on here in 2015 and this forum has been an absolute life saver for me.
I have had six rounds of IVF over then last five years with six surgeries for endometriosis/womb/cervical stitch.
IVF worked every time but sadly had miscarriages every time from 8 weeks to 16 weeks to 23 weeks. We had to bury two little girls along the journey in 2017 and 2018 which was heart breaking. At times I wanted to give up and even die but some how I found the strength to carry on and fight for me dream.
Last summer I turned 40 and i said I would do this one last time. We went to north Cyprus and put three eggs back hoping and praying one would take. After our Positive pregnancy test I was bleeding heavy and thought it was all over. My husband convinced me to have a scan and we were told twins. A week later to check on the twins progress we were told three heart beats.
We had an awful pregnancy, bleeding, severe sickness and I was put on bed rest from 10 weeks. With my poor obstetric history we were not sure what would happen and unsure if I would get past 24 weeks. I didn’t post anything until later as I was too scared of loosing the babies.
At 25+5 weeks my waters went and we held of delivery until 26+4 weeks. The delivery was traumatic but the babies were rushed to nicu. It’s been another long hard journey bod blood transfusions and constant tests for the babies but they have done it and after 83 long days in nicu they are all home and healthy.
I still can’t believe they are mine. It’s hard work but I love it.
I really hope I give others hope because it was women on here that gave me hope and strength at some of my worst times. I thank you all.
If anyone wants to message me or ask me anything please do.
I’m crying writing this post as I never ever thought I would get to this point. Dreams can come true.
Good luck to you all and remember don’t give up xxxxx
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Missy let me say from the bottom of my heart congratulations x 3!!!!!! They are so beautiful I cant even tell you how happy their picture and your post has made me! Your journey sounds like the stuff of nightmares. I know what wanting to die feels like so I hear how hard this must have been. But you have been so brave to carry on and now your been blessed. May your amazing family flourish and motherhood be filled with happiness. You're gonna be exhausted woman! But its worth it. Sending you love and hugs ❤🙏👍😘🤗🎈🎀🎉🍾
Thank you so much for sharing, this is inspiring. So happy for you and they are so adorable!
In my native language roughly translated to English they greet new moms as "happy hands in water" this comes from the idea that you will be doing a lot of washing as a result of having a baby 😁😁😁.. yours is a hands in water x3 💗💗💗
You are such a brave woman, thankfully all your struggles have been rewarded. congratulations on your well deserved bundles of joy 💗💗💗
Huge congratulations!!!! Your babies are gorgeous ❤️❤️❤️
I’m currently 26weeks + 4days pregnant with twin girls and live in fear every single day that something will go wrong due to previous recurrent miscarriages. So your story gives me huge hope. Thank you so much for sharing.
Wishing you a wonderful life with your amazing new family 💕 xx
It’s amazing what they can do for premature babies. Try and relax and remember babies can survive from 23 weeks nowadays. Take everyday as a bonus. Good luck to you you can do this xx
Wow, what a beautiful ending! Hearty congratulations and thanks for sharing your journey. Thanks for the encouragement to not give up. Enjoy your blessings! X
Huge congratulations to you, what beautiful little babies!! You've certainly been through the mill, and whilst you'll never forget your little angels you are truly blessed to get your happy ending. Enjoy every moment with your miracles. What a beautiful post to wake up to on this miserable Tuesday morning 💕💕💕💕
Huge congratulations! I am literally crying from reading your post, what a journey you have had! I’m soo happy for you getting your happy ending. Having a 28 week prem myself, I can understand some of your NICU journey which is hard enough, you absolute super star. Enjoy every moment with your bubbas xxxx
I’m so delighted for you. You’ve gone through such a tough journey & throughly deserve your 3 beautiful miracles 💗💗💙 you are a incredibly strong woman & an inspiration. Looking after 3 babies must be hard work but if anyone can do it’s you! Enjoy your wonderful family life xxx
Oh just beautiful 😍 What a tough journey you & your husband have had - raising these beauties will be the easiest part! You’re incredibly brave and strong and I wish you all the happiness 💗💙💗
Many many many congratulations to you and your husband on your 3 adorable children. What an amazing inspiration to us all- I know I would have given up after all you went through - you guys sound like a very brave and strong couple and I’m sure will be totally amazing parents for your 3 babies. Your post made me cry too - you guys totally deserve this and I wish you an amazing ( but busy ) life ahead. Xxx
Wow this is just wayyyy too much cuteness 🥰 Congratulations Missy you deserve every bit of them I’m just sorry you went through so much before they got here. 💐💐💐 They are beautiful. 💐💐💐Hope you and they have the happiest life 😊 x
Ahhhh this has made me cry..... how adorable are your babies... absolutely gorgeous.... congratulations dear and I wish and your huge 😊family nothing but health and happiness 😘😘
Oh wow what an amazing post! I’m so glad that you and your beautiful family are finally home together after such a long and difficult journey! So sorry that you had to go through all of that. You are so strong and together you both must make an incredible team and those three little beauts are so lucky to have you as their parents!! Wishing you all good health and happiness 🌈🌈🌈 xxx
You are so strong to have got through all this. Many many congratulations on your beautiful triplets. You have been rewarded with the ultimate gift and may we all be as blessed as you and your family. Wishing you only the best. Thank you for your post. xxxx
Wow. They are absolutely beautiful and well done you. You have been through so much, you are truly inspirational. I too had ivf in northern Cyprus and am currently pregnant (with 1). You are amazing xx
Wow wow wow! Congratulations congratulations congratulations!!!!! After everything you’ve been through, to now have THREE babies at home must be unbelievable. Your journey sounds like one of the toughest I’ve ever read. You’re an inspiration. Well done for your perseverance and resilience and positivity to just keep going. I’m so so happy for you and your now huge family! What a dream come true after so many nightmares on your journey. Everything happens for a reason. These 3 babies were meant for you. I’m sure having triplets will be such hard work but because of your journey I’m sure you’ll appreciate every moment a lot more than most would. Well done mummy!!!!!!! Lots of love to you all xxxx
I’ve been wondering how you were getting on with the triplets, glad to hear you’re all at home now, fantastic news! They are gorgeous ❤️ you deserve every happiness, so so happy for you that your struggles are finally over. You are a true warrior. Enjoy your beautiful babies 🥰 xxxxx
What a blessing to finally be home with your babies. That sounds like sooo much no one should ever have to go through! You are such a fighter. God bless those precious gifts from God and your family.best of luck to you mama 🌸
Had to duck into my work toilets for a little cry after seeing this! I’m SO happy for you.
What a beautiful ‘end’ to your journey, which of course is actually just beginning. They’re beautiful, I imagine you’re going to have a lot of adventures together xx
Not at all its lovely to hear from someone who has struggled that they ended up succeeding.
Hi Missy22 , Congratulations, what a fantastic outcome from a long journey. I can relate, as we have also been on this journey since 2015 and are continuing with transfer number 8. Last March we lost a little boy at 17+6 due to my cervix opening. Thanks for taking the time to update, you’ve made it to ‘the other side.’
Massive congratulations, it sounded like a very tough journey. But my goodness you have 3 beautiful babies. Enjoy and treasure every second, of which I’m sure you will xxxx
Oh wow that is amazing and you have had such a hard journey.....U deserve this happiness and so do all of u strong ladies. I am so glad I've joined this forum u all create hope for each other.
All your messages are making me emotional. This forum has been amazing for me. Seeing different posts has helped me though good and bad times. We’re all warriors and should be proud of what we have gone through and what we’re going through. Good luck to you all xxx
This is absolutely amazing news. Huge congratulations to you and your little family. I can’t imagine what you must have been through to get this far and I am so happy for you that you finally have your miracle babies. Enjoy every minute with them x
That’s so amazing. True inspiration hun. Huge congratulations. Def deserve this. Enjoy every moment. Take care xxx
Oh honey. Oh my. I am crying with joy for you here. This is the most beautiful post I think I have ever seen. I came on here today because I have a similar history to you and my current pregnancy is exceptionally difficult and I'm so worried. And then I see this. I can't believe the miracles here. You are so so so strong and so blessed. Thank you so much for sharing. Miracles really can happen. I wish you and your amazing family all the best
Wow this post is beautiful, sending the biggest congratulations to you and your family. Your babies are just adorable. I’m sure your story will give so many women here the hope they need to push through regardless of their journey. Thanks for sharing Xx
So amazing. Made me smile so much. Miracles do happen. My baby boy was born after 6 miscarriages out of the blue and I still can’t believe he is mine and he is now 2,5 years old! Determination and strength. You are amazing
OMG what a story both sad and truly happy ending, there is a god and I believe that. They are beautiful and well done to you and your partner. what a story but this prove's anything is possible in the hand of god. wow, I wish you better and enjoy finally after all this hard work of been mummy and daddy. such a amazing story. defo gives me some hope hoping I will get there one day. I need to have DE after 3 failed attempts. gonna be 40 soon to. Take care hun xxxx
I've only just startd my journey 9months ago at 42 so I know in a sense time is running out. Thanks so much for sharing this. It's very encouraging. Shall PM your re ivf clinic. Thanks.
Congratulations, may you and your family have a smooth, long, and successful future ahead
Wow, what a journey but so many congratulations on your 3 bundles of joy. I am sure you will have many crazy days ahead but what a fun journey to be on. Enjoy, you deserve it ❤️
Massive congratulations your babies are just perfect 🌈🌈🌈 I am crying reading your post you deserve this after everything you have been through. 🥰 absolutely gorgeous thank you so much for sharing your happy positive story. So happy for you sending lots of hug’s ❤️❤️❤️ xx
Wow...what a story! I can't imagine the heartbreak you've been through...you must be amazingly strong to have carried on your journey after such devastating losses...and I'm so delighted to hear there were 3 precious babies at the end of that journey for you.
Enjoy every minute and loads of love to you all ❤️❤️❤️
Wow this is great and happy ending I was crying 😭 as I was reading your post am so happy for the happy ending congratulations wishing you and your family a wonderful beautiful happy life big hugs to you all
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