Advice needed

[amie1]

Hi. I'm due to have my embryo transfer around sat 24th all going well . But am supposed to be going to a two day conference on the Monday. Is this a bad idea or should I just carry on as normal?

[Dreams1982]

Hi amie1 I was told by my clinic to rest up for at least a week to allow the embryo to settle and do what it needs to. I was told no heavy lifting, hoovering cleaning etc so just tried to take it easy. Xx

[amie1 in reply to Dreams1982]

Hmm I know I think I'm realising it's not a good idea. Thank you for your reply x

[Dreams1982 in reply to amie1]

I had a family function 2 days after my ET and got told absaloutley no travelling as it was so soon afterwards. Gosh there was some terrible lying going on that week lol

[amie1 in reply to Dreams1982]

Ahh I bet. Shame it all falls together but worth it I hope x

[Datak in reply to amie1]

My embryologist gave some good advice ... he said not to do anything I could blame myself/feel guilty about if I got a bfn (even if it had nothing to do with outcome in reality). Travelling means suitcases, lots of social situations when feeling hormonal etc. It would probably be fine but its a lot of worry to put yourself through xxxx

[amie1 in reply to Datak]

Yes I agree. I was looking forward to it and I know it's for the best. I agree I would blame it if things didn't go right. X

[katya38]

I wouldn't you are better to relax and take it easy for at least 48 hours. You would technically be OK by Monday depends on how heavy going the conference would be x

[amie1]

I spoke with the nurse today she said the same. So told work I can't go. It's for the best. I would blame it if everything didn't go to plan. Thanks for your advice x