Advice needed

[Emmaxxx]

Ok ladies. 10dp5dt. Had a bleed and tested negative again today. Otd is Saturday. Shall I just stop pessaries as why prolong the agony? It’s not going to change the result on Saturday is it. Maybe Diane Arnold can lend some advice?

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I am sorry you got a negative test so crushing but it could change by OTD, so I would strongly advise you do continue with the pessaries until OTD. You don’t want any regrets. And what’s another 2 days of using them at least you know you tried your best. I really hope that you do get a positive test on OTD. Keeping everything crossed for you ❤️xoxo

[Cinderella5]

Hey Emma, most of the clinics advise you to carry on until official test day. Like I said it is would destroying and it's your decision but completely understand you wanting to stop.xx

[GoingMental]

Hi Emma, I’m in the same boat 10dp5dt and tested this morning and got a BFN.

I’m completely devastated! It’s my second IVF cycle and I am hoping that it’s wrong (even though deep down I doubt it is).

My OTD is on Sunday so I am just continuing with my presseries until then.

I’m not going to do another test until then but I have read some positive posts where their BFN turned out to be BFP so fingers crossed!!!

[Emmaxxx in reply to GoingMental]

Hey Hun. My test day is Saturday so I will continue with meds till then. This was our 2nd round too. It it soul destroying isn’t it. Both times I have never had any to freeze but have a good collection. Why keep we keep them and grow them???? I hope you do get a positive but deep down I think we know our own body. Keep me posted hun. And I’m thinking of you xx

[GoingMental in reply to Emmaxxx]

I know it is soak destroying but don’t lose hope and don’t stop trying, I know I won’t! Fingers crossed for Saturday let me know how you get on, hopefully it’s good news for you! I will keep u posted on Sunday too. Just know ur not going through it on ur own and it’s nothing u did wrong. Nobody knows the reasons for all of this but we are in the best hands so hopefully one day we will get there! xx