My husband and I have been TTC for 4 years now and had one failed IVF with ICSI last month. All our siblings have one child or more, which is adding to the pressure. I am finding it more and more difficult to react calmly to the nosey people asking: "what about you, what are you waiting for?"; or similar types of questions. So far I have replied very awkwardly and have felt very hurt afterwards. Anybody has come up with a good reply?