I've been with my partner just shy of four years as with all relationships we have not been without problems. Though for the most part nothing that I would notice as an obvious strain. To fast forward earlier this morning whilst I was on my laptop I noticed my partners facebook page open. Being the naturally inquisitive person that I am, I decided to snoop around. Now this where the problem stems from.
I cam upon an instant message sent from him to a friend whereby my partner was happily boasting that if I was indeed infertile that he would and I quote 'happily leave me as no-one is going to stand in his way of his children.' To add insult to injury I also came across a post whereby in no uncertain terms he professed his undying love towards his godson listing him as his only priority. Now naturally these few messages have me taken aback and extremely hurt. Something which he seemingly cannot understand. Choosing instead to attack my past indiscretions which occurred at the infancy of our relationship (harmless and often friendly messages to my ex.)
To make matters more complicated neither of us have currently been tested in terms of our fertility but at the same time have been unable to conceive.
So my questions to you is am I simply overreacting and what should I do next?
(P.S I appreciate you guys for taking the time to read this rather long winded piece)