Hi girls ,
We have our first IVF app Tuesday , and whilst I am nervous but also looking forward to it as this is hopefully a big step towards our baby. I am naturally a very laid back person, sometimes to laid back for my own good. ( although this IVF is all I seem to have in my brain) my boyfriend on the other hand , has been very - shall we say " tetchy" I know it's a big deal for him too , he will never admit he's worried . But, he does get wound up easily , and I'm slightly concerned about Tuesday's app because I don't want him to get all stressie at the appointment . This happens before once at our last app - they basically wouldn't ref us due to my bmi being 30.2 , and he got stressed re this. Of course I was annoyed but I just deal with things , he seems to go into the why's and wherefores.
I know he also is thinking that we will need to move and me give up work when the time comes so I know this is all playing on his mind. But to be honest , I could quote do without this all . It's me they is going through the treatment , but the past few weeks it's kind of like treading on egg shells . He is supportive don't get me wrong but surely it should be me stressed to the max - not him ! Rant over .....
Be nice to hear your views / stories re your partners .
Thanks girls .
( this site is like my little site of hope ) x