Terrified 😢🙏

[Ladyboss397]

Hi Ladies,

I'm not sure what I'm after if anything I'm probably being irrational and nothing I can do but I got a BFP on the 9th (wed) I'm so happy obviously and been really positive or I think so I tested again on the Sunday still positive yay used clear blue showed 2-3 weeks, had to rtst again the following week with my clinics test which I did and still positive double yay... I am officially mental so j tested again that following Sunday with the clear blue triple yay positive again and now showing 3+ weeks!

Although I've done 4 tests have no reason to think anything is wrong (apart from some cramps which I've read is round ligement pain which is normal plus I have a condition which affects my ligement and causes pain so I'm guessing this is what this is down to)

I am still so terrified it's unbelievable 😢 my scan is Tuesday I'm so excited but I'm also so scared there's going to be no heartbeat it's driving me crazy!!!

Sorry for the long post and I'm not being negative a about it or ungrateful at all I'm just so worried probably about noting but still 😔 any wise words or cyber slap in the faces welcome

I hope u are all ok?

Lots of baby dust to you all 😘

[pm27]

Your thoughts sound quite normal to me. If I get a BFP I'll probably be the same. My second miscarriage from a natural conception was discovered at the 12 week scan so I'll be insisting on regular scans to put my mind at ease.

Hopefully everything will be fine and dandy and you'll come away with a picture of your blob to show off to everyone.

[Hopeful1982]

Hello ladyboss, I got a positive result following our IVF and I felt exactly the same. In fact I think it was more anxious during my wait for the scan than I was during the 2ww! It's normal to be nervous especially after all you've been through but as you say, there's nothing to suggest anything is wrong so try to hold that thought!

Good luck for Tuesday. I hope it all goes well x

[samrakkar]

Goof luck babe I'm sure all will be fine

I'm the same test day today... scan booked now I'm scared and worried about the scan! It's horrible isn't it and my wait for my scan has only begun today.

I've been testing everyday since Friday and now I don't have to test tomorrow it's going to be strange as it was my little reassurance every morning to see that line getting darker. It's a horrible all these waits!

Xx

[Hidden]

Good luck for Tuesday I'm sure many feel the same way x

[Lynnr54]

You're being completely normal. I was exactly the same and over analysed every little thing. If my symptoms disappeared for a bit then I was convinced something was wrong. I drove DH crazy! I def found the wait for the scan worse than the 2ww! After everything that we've been through to get this far its only normal to worry. The good news is that since my scan (Tuesday) I've calmed down a lot and not worrying so much if my symptoms disappear for a bit - usually means they'll be back with avengence a few hrs later anyway! Good luck! x

[EllieD]

I think this is absolutely normal and something I definitely suffered with. The first 10 weeks for me where full of anxiety I just couldn't believe our luck! Time ticks by so slowly and we had 2 bleeds to contend with!!! When I spoke to the clinic they said that women found this the worst time but anyone going through treatment would not have believed it! I would honestly say that it was worse than the going through the process of ivf cos now there is something to lose!!!! Anyway I'm now 20 weeks and slightly more relaxed! Congratulations and although I would never tell you to relax I would say try to enjoy it I'm sure you've been dreaming of this day for such a long time xxxxxx

[ifu03311]

Hey please don't worry - it sounds like everything is going great. How did your scan go? I was worried sick as we went at 6w3d and no heart beat..convinced ourselves it was bad news and then three days later little heart beat was there keep positive and strong xx

[hopeforICSI in reply to ifu03311]

Please advise me I got no heartbeat result in 7w3d scan. Should I wait? Or go for surgical miscarriage????

[Ladyboss397 in reply to hopeforICSI]

Have u decided what to do Hun? I'm so sorry ur having to go through this.. But if it was me I'd feel exactly the same as I've read about getting a heart beat later on a scan I think personally I'd get another one done just to be sure!! hope ur ok xxx

[Poppynco]

Stay positive it's totally normal to worry ! X

[hopeforICSI]

Stay positive you will hear good news. Wish you all the best xx

[Ladyboss397]

Thanks ladies this bloody IVF business drives u crazy doesn't it...

I suppose only time will tell and what's meant to be will be!!!

Good luck to you all where ever you are on ur journey.

😘 xxx