Hi, I am a new member to the group and I am delighted to be here. I have been married for more than 18 years. Only myself and my husband, no children. I am now 41 and we really would like to have a little one! I suffer from water retention in my legs and my ankles and feet gets swollen most times especially when the time gets hot. I have recently moved from a size 14 to 16 subsequently the increase in weight causes the swelling daily. I am very concerned as if I get pregnant my ankles and feet may pop up due to the increase in weight from the pregnancy. We had decided not to have a little one but all of sudden that's all we talk about. Miscarriages in the past, blocked tube and was told IVF is required. My husband is 44. Any advice please!