H All, I am new to this community but was hoping i could get some advice if people had experienced the same thing or similar.
My boyfriend and i have been trying for 18 months to get pregnant, only to now find out that my boyfriend has a y chromosome defect which means he does not have the ability to produce sperm. So out dreams of creating a baby together have been crushed.
We are discussing using donor sperm, but we have so many concerns, for one, will he still feel a connection to the baby if he didn't father it? if we went through with it, will he start resenting me somehow because the baby is part of me but not him?
We are both still so confused and upset by the news, but I'm 35 now and really want to have a baby, I just don't know what to do.
Can anybody help?