I have been trying for years to get pregnant and to constantly every month be let down I ask God why everyday why me I would be a great mom I'm finally thinking of trying other options I have not discussed with my partner my infertility issues
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hi I think if you have been trying for years then you need to get some tests done. we did and found out the issue or one of them was a zero sperm count - something you would never imagine would be happening. We started these investigations - bloods etc last Sept and now find out it would be another 15 months to wait for another possible treatment. With age the one thing I really wish - as well as wishing this was not happening - is that we started this process 5 years ago so my biggest advice is try and find out now what you maybe dealing with... good luck. its really hard and upsetting when you wonder why me.. I understand how you feel especially when everyone else gets it so easy. this site is great for support though so it does help
My first piece after advice is to talk to your partner as who knows he may be feeling the same as you....
After you have spoken to your partner then make an appointment at the doctors..