me and my partner have been trying to get pregnant for nearly ten years now unfortunately i have pcos and my partner has a teenage son from a previous relationship so have been told over and over again we are not allowed ivf on the nhs because he has a son how is this fair? his son is a young man now who we hardly ever see its not like i had the opportunity to help bring him up as a child why is it the nhs will give methadone and heroin addicts treatment but i dont have the right to be a mum? i understand there has to be rules and they try to save money but surely im entitled to be a mother i have had a large tumour removed from my right ovary but fortunatly didnt have to have anything taken away my problem is i do not ovulate i have had the clomid cycles etc but they say there is nothing i can do now apart from ivf and i dont have 5-7 grand to pay what can i do? surely there is something or some way i can get help im so desperate to be a mummy and ten years of test after test and constant disapointment is really starting to take its toll on me dont know how much longer i can go on im so fed up of being down and upset and the worst part is i should be so happy for friends and family when they start a family and im starting to find it so hard now and shut my self away from them please please please if anyone can help i would love for you to get in touch x
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