Hi. I'm new here and would really appreciate some advice. I had a radical prostatectomy just over 2 years ago but still can't get an erection. I'm 65 now by the way. This "failure" led to thinking that everything I did was a failure too, and I avoided contact with other people as I thought they would see me as a failure. I'm over the worst of that now, but wonder if anyone who's been through the same experience already can offer any advice.
I have an excellent ed nurse. The strongest Alprostadil urethral sticks don't work. The Caverject injections work fairly well but my penis doesn't go down for several hours, so I am strongly advised not to inject. Although I use the pump regularly for exercise, the rings (I've tried several) don't hold it up well enough for penetration. I really feel that I'm letting my wife down and would love to be able to give her proper sex again. Has anyone had a similar experience and can give me any advice to help get a better erection?