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Jonjo12354
Jonjo12354

I am only 21 and i have been suffering from erectile dysfunction for approximately 6months - not being able to get an erection at all. I have bought over the counter tablets such as viagra from pharmacys which have had literally zero help at all. All i read on the internet is bad things about it and how hard it is to reverse it. I live a healthy and active lifestyle i exercise 4/5times a week and i am at a healthy weight i dont smoke and drink alcohol maybe 3/4 times a month. Unexpectedly about 2months ago i met this girl and even though i knew about the problems i had we have been seeing eachother but i have never got an erection with her and I always have to make an excuse about not having sex with her. I am too scared to tell her as i have not known her that long. This is really affecting my life and making me down and depressed. I am also too scared to tell anyone about this as its embarrassing and i am starting to think there is no solution to the problem.

Does anyone have any successful storys on this topic and any advice would would be great and is much needed as i really dont know where to go from here! :(

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Hi Jonjo,

The first step is to find out what the cause of your problem is. It can be physiological or psychological. Either one, there are many options to help you from simply consultations with a sexual psychiatric to most invasive solution which is prothesis implantation.

ED is a disorder like all other illness so there no need to be embarrassed about. Be open to the girl you are seeing and if she really likes you, she will understand and if not probably she is not a right person.

Hi Jonjo, Like Farira has said the causes ofE.D. can vary. First stop see your Doctor and get a diagnosis if possible. Erectile dysfunction can be a stony road with lots of dissapointments. However if you can identify the problem not just the symptoms then you have a starting point. A vacuum erection devise can help as you go along exploring different treatments. Nothing worked for me but the vet. Its absolutely reliable and gives me a good erection every time. Have a look at Frank Talk its awesome site with loads of info on this subject from men with Ed and of allage groups.All the best mate

you need to seek help of a urologist to make sure there is not a serious underlying cause. Make sure you see a board certified urologist. Often times ED issues are the first sign of something else.

I am looking at this:

mayoclinic.org/diseases-con...

I'm not seeing anything that would afflict someone as young as you. Go see a urologist. Don't wait.

Hi Jonjo,

Im 21, having a similar problem, im going through treatment now, cant tell you a lot for the solution Of the problem, but for the most part go see an urologist. I think my and your Problem is psychological, you are gonna need some kind of medicine obviously, the doc is gonna tell you what to take, also train hard, lift heavy and try to boost your confidence, these are natural ways to pick up your testosterone levels. If its not psychological problem the doc is going to resolve the problem. Dont worry about it, im sure everything will be alright! Once i have improvement i’ll write again. Feel free to ask anything

Jonjo12354
Jonjo12354 in reply to QKneeCap

Thanks! Its good to know someone who is going through the same situation! Have you seen any improvement since treatment?

QKneeCap
QKneeCap in reply to Jonjo12354

Got my erections back when waking up, and also my libido up a bit, but my main problem is that i cant maintain an erection, I still have 3 days left on the medicine Im taking, will make an update again after that.

Jonjo12354
Jonjo12354 in reply to QKneeCap

I hope everything works out for you! Be nice for you to post and update every now and then. Cheers mate

QKneeCap
QKneeCap in reply to Jonjo12354

Seek help from urologist, im sure everything will be on track! Cheers

QKneeCap
QKneeCap in reply to Jonjo12354

Quick update, got a new medicine from my urologist and i got to see improvement! My libido rose up a bit and for the first time in 4 months on my own I wanted to masturbate, without watching anything or getting stimulated. Look for Icariin (epimedium koreanum) I’m five days in and i can feel a change. Cheers, hope you went to the doc and you are working on the problem!

Jonjo12354
Jonjo12354 in reply to QKneeCap

Hi ive just seen this thanks for the update. Thats sounds good. Yeah i went the doc and working through causes with them. Any more updates??

QKneeCap
QKneeCap in reply to Jonjo12354

Im getting erections, still havent done anything i dont know if I can maintain one for long. But im feeling okay for now, will make an update again after some time

Bro, me too faced same. But there are some natural like medicine like L-arginene and PCT Pro are helpful in this. Try it out.

Jonjo12354
Jonjo12354 in reply to itsmebro

Hi mate. Have these worked for you

itsmebro
itsmebro in reply to Jonjo12354

Yes brO. pm me for further.

Can anyone give me any help on trying to tell my girlfriend about this. She has been working away for 2 weeks on a trip and is home tomorrow. Since she left i have had sleepless nights thinking about ways to tell her because i know we havent seen eachother that long so is probably going to leave me. If it was any othee girl id make up an excuse and just write the relationship off completely but with this girl i cant lose her but im so afraid i already have.

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