I have for years suffered extremely horrific periods and have been through check uops all my life for polysistic ovaries always coming back incolclusive last year after going for more tests and being told there was ntohign wrong with me i woke up bleeding profusely wnet green in colour started sweating and vommiting and ended up being rushed to hospital.My boyfriend at the time of almost a yr was with me as we always lived together he saw me go through this and i spent a entire day and night in intensive care the surgent sat me and my boyfriend down and explained that us doing what we were doing that morning "sex"had effected it and that i had a extreme case of endemetriosis.the nextday my boyfriend was really lovely but then started to become extremely nasty and even nastier once i went for more examinations he told me he didnt want to huirt me so he could wait for 3 months then when i got unwell the next weekend after 2 weeks he left me he said it had nothing to do with me being sick but the truth of the matter is he clearly got turned of me when i became so unwell as the day we ended up in hospital we had just invited my oarents over to show them a ring hed given me the week before and our overseas travels booked together.
He came back a few times being nice but wed have sex and hed either be thinking to much or one time i bled and he got up and left.Its now been 4 months and ive been on the pill and was getting better but the pill stopped woking recently and i started bleeding intensely so badly that i cant go to work.I am now so depressed as it remind sme of why my byfriend who i loved very much left me.Ive been emotional All week i live very healthy as i work at gym so i take good care of myself but mentally and emotionally i am a mess im 26 and im so worried after reading some of these posts that this will always be a issue and no one will ever love me .I didnt even realise couples went to counselling about this and readin that so many men cheat due to this has made me feel HORRIBLE.i see that a lot of bfs have stuck around .
I also wonder does anybody else do the pill to help with it as I have been given he pill until i do my surgery(im on waiting list) but my docter told me after every 2 packs 3-6 months i have to suffer a period cos id been bleeding even on the pill im now on the sugar tablets for 2 days and leading up my emotions have been crazy ive been crying a lot is this pms ?
I need some help and advice.
Im instucted next to go on the mini pill and see how this works?
please anybody who can help me would be great