Ok, this is quite a controversial topic. However, some of my friends have asked me about it, because they ask me "what if you can't have kids in the future?", "if you got pregnant now, would you keep it?" ... (I'm only 18 btw).
I'm not really ready at all to even discuss this, but of course I am worried about the future, because I do want children someday.
I personally do not agree with abortion, but would not criticize someone for doing so, for their own personal reasons. I would not try to get pregnant at this age at all, because I have so much of my future ahead of me, and so many plans with education & career, that it would not be ideal for me personally, and I have nothing against young mums.
But, I do find myself sometimes thinking 'what the hell would I do, if I accidentally got pregnant, and there's a chance I can't have kids in the future?' Would I keep the baby? Would I not? What the hell would I do, because I am in no place to bring up a child, when I still feel like one myself etc...
I suppose, if I didn't keep the baby, and found that I could not have kids in the future, I would be kicking myself so much!
& If I did, it would of course be a blessing, but I would not be able to give the child the life it deserves, and I would miss out so much on my own.
Anyway, I suppose I am asking if any of you if you find yourself thinking like this? What are your personal experiences?
It's not an important issue for me at the moment, but I get asked about it a lot, and to be honest I don't know what I would say or do.