Hi all,
I’m new to this community and feeling rather nervous about posting, however I would appreciate advice from anyone who has similar experiences.
My unfortunate journey with Endometriosis started many years ago, however the contraceptive pill masked my symptoms for most of my teenage years / early twenties. Although I was back and forth to my GP with typical Endo symptoms, this was never suggested in terms of diagnosis. I was told it was likely anxiety (?!). Anyway, it wasnt until 2 years ago at age 26 that I decided to stop taking the pill in order to regulate my hormones / body, in hopes of trying to conceive.
Since then, symptoms related to Endo has hit me like a ton of bricks. In December 2021 I was rushed to A&E with suspected appendicitis. I was kept in over night as blood work indicated an infection. I was told I would receive an ultrasound / scan but this didnt happen. I was discharged with no answers, only that it must have been a bad case of period pain. I returned to my GP a couple of days later, finally someone listened to me and she requested an ultrasound, suspecting I had an ovarian cyst. Sure enough, the scan confirmed I had a large ovarian cyst (suspected endometrioma) on one of my ovaries; I was referred to the Gynaecology Dept at my local hospital, whom suspected Endometriosis.
As I emphasised the importance of preserving any chance I have in terms of fertility, a Laparoscopy was suggested. I was referred to the Fertility Clinic and carried out the required tests etc. I received a further scan 6 months after my referral to Gynae, where it was found that the endometrioma had grown significantly in size; due to risks associated with the cyst bursting / ovarian torsion, I was placed on an urgent list for surgery. 10 months after being open to the Gynae Dept and 2 cancellations later, I finally received the Laparoscopy two days ago. My Gynaecologist performed the surgery and shared I am stage 3-4, another Endometrioma was found on my other cyst, one fallopian tube was partially blocked (dye test performed), and some organs were fused together. She also said the large cyst that we were aware of had already burst by the time she went in to perform the Lap… unsure as to whether this happened during procedure or not (?!). She managed to remove a patch of Endo and the “burst” cyst, however left everything else, including the cyst on my other ovary, due to the risk of further damage to my reproductive organs.
Following the Lap, I was consulted by the Gynae who said I’d require a referral to a specific Specialist Endometriosis Centre; my care in terms of Fertility Clinic/Treatment would also be transferred to this hospital so that everything is done in one place. My question is, will this referral be done by the Gynae or will my GP have to do this? I received a copy of my discharge summary / op report but it’s rather vague, no documentation of plans to refer me to this centre. However, the nurses whom looked after me on the ward confirmed that the Consultant had documented this in my file / clinical notes.
I guess I’m just feeling a little confused and deflated. This was my first ever surgery and I’m struggling with recovery, though it’s early days. I have 4 incisions and the one lower down in my pubic area is causing significant pain. I’m afraid to shower and did not receive much advice regarding aftercare.
Does anyone have any advice regarding the pathway / what to expect if you are referred to a Specialist Centre following initial Lap please? I was told this would be funded by the NHS as my case apparently meets the criteria for specialist care… between dealing with Gynae, Fertility Clinic and my GP, I’m unsure who my point of contact is.
In terms of recovery, I will be off for 2 weeks. When is it safe to shower, drive etc?
Thank you!