Don't know what to believe

[Snoopturtle1]

Hi sorry if this is insensitive I'm struggling with what I've been told I found out awhile ago I was pregnant but sadly I'm having a loss I have been told it was different things that has coursed it I just don't know what to believe I've been told it just happened then I get told it my age and how many previous pregnancy and the lastest I was told due to the egg coming out of the ovary that's covered with endo it produced a bad egg. I've come to terms with what's happening as they called it a delayed miscarriage I've never heard of that. Do I listen to what I've been told or just focus on it just wasn't my time

[Heartof3]

Bless u 😞 sorry to hear this.I had similar about 3 years ago. I was about 6 weeks & had awful pressure & sharp pain, They just told me they could see abit of debris around the sac & it wasn't meant to be 😞

Take each day as it comes & stay strong ❣

[Snoopturtle1 in reply to Heartof3]

Thank you I had a check up scan Saturday just gone and they can still see baby and said it was shinking. I've got my lil boy and about to become a nan in few weeks so that helping alot keeping my mind focus

[Jenn2022]

I'm very sorry for your loss. I've not heard the term 'delayed miscarriage" before either.

Your eggs are all formed before you were even born yourself, so although they are released when you are older I don't believe for a moment that your endo has caused a "bad egg".

However it is almost impossible to ever know what caused a miscarriage. There are some factors like hormone levels which drs can monitor (for example i understand that producing low levels of progesterone make it difficult to sustain a pregnancy). It's also true that as you get older, and your eggs get older, it is harder to get and stay pregnant. But the truth is you'll likely never know. Miscarriages are sadly very, very common, much more common than people believe as women are reluctant to talk about them.

Sending my love.