Hi all, I’m 8mths pregnant and just found out my partner of 9years is cheating on me!!!!
Well I say cheating I’ve found provocative pics that girls has sent him although his not sent any back I still see that as cheating?? I’ve also found out his on 2 dating websites which looks like people only use for sex. This is where I found the pictures/messages he had been sent but also messages where he was asking girls to meet up with him. We already have a child who’s 2 and now I’m expecting another baby anytime soon.
I just don’t know what to do?? His cheated on me once when we first got together but I forgave him and tried to move on although I never did trust him after that hence reason for me going through his phone. I know I should walk away but it’s really hard as I don’t want my children to be from a broken home but I can’t carry on like this. His a good dad most of the time but can’t b bothered the rest of the time. Even tho I’m 8mths pregnant he doesn’t do much to help me around the house and moans when he comes in from wrk if I’ve not washed up etc!! I don’t know if that’s a man thing as he doesn’t realise looking after a 2yr old and being so heavily preggers I can’t do much. I’m 36 yrs old and the thought of having to start again is so daunting to me but I know he has to go. His also 36 but carry’s on like his 18 it’s embarrassing sometimes.
I’m running/paying for everything in the house he works but hardly gives me any money may buy the odd loaf or milk here n there but that’s it. He has kids from a past relationship that he sees but again if we do things then I’m the one paying and sorting things out to do.
I’m not sure what I’m looking for on here maybe reassurance Or someone that’s been in my position ?? Thanks for your advice in advance xx