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Well what more does endo have to take from me vent !sex talk .dont read if you don’t like tmi

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Just posting to vent had a misscarrige around 6 week ago after about 2 week me and my partner had intercourse which was fine now 6 week on I actually can’t believe the pain I’m in and how dry it is down their my endo symptoms started about 3 month before I got pregnant I noticed some changes but not as bad it’s got to the point where I’m actually breathing through it and it hurts to orgasm being a very sexually active girl before endo symptoms began I’m extremely furious I don’t like oral sex and I’ve never done it since a teenager it’s just not my thing.but now it’s like endo has took away my sex life my partner does rough positions although I ask him to be gentle sometimes he gets into it and goes back to his rough self I can’t lift my legs up on one side .im only 34 Just and I feel like that’s too young I’m starting to feel like an old grandma I know people younger with it and I’m sorry for that but this is frustrating me.endo took my baby lots of things I can’t do I haven’t been to work because of it what more will it take away from me!!

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I am so sorry to hear you have had a miscarriage especially with the Endometriosis you have.

With what you have described with your partner being rough with you it sounds as if you are rightly so not giving your consent during sex, and if he is being rough with you despite you not wanting him to be rough you need to report him and get help urgently.

Please speak to any family or friends and there are victim support, women's aid and the police who will help you. Xxx

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Afrohair in reply to Lovepenguins

I think its because he just gets into it and forgets I have endo half way through and it starts to look like I’m moaning when I can’t do certain positions it’s having a toll on him too I guess my symptoms have only just really started so he thinks I’m my old self

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