Hello, I have my 1st lap a week today and I’m bricking it! I’ve had symptoms since I was a teen and I’m now 45, it’s been diagnosed as IBS all this time but never addressed the gyne side of things. They think there is pretty good evidence that I have Endometriosis but my husband doesn’t see the pain and lack of curing the problem from a lap as worth it as I am 45 and probably have my menopause in the next 5 years or so. It’d be interesting to get an older woman’s view on this and what their family thought. Thanks for reading.