So I'm out of treatment options and decided to get myself on the wait list two weeks ago for the full hysteratomy. After taking advice from someone here i then asked my consultant to refer to me for the surgery to a local BSGE accredited centre. I got this letter yesterday and I'm not only angry but also confused about what to do. I either go to my doctor and ask for the referral to the BSGE centre, have to take even more time off work and end up losing money I can't afford to lose OR I let my current consultant do the surgery at my local hospital. I'm fuming because he never said to me what he'd said in this letter. Absolute tosh. I'm worried because my last experience at my local hospital wasn't a good one but that was with a different consultant.
I'm incredibly confused and unsure what to do.
What would you do in my position? I'm losing sleep over making the decision on where to go and it's stressing me out. Tried to talk to my husband about it and I'm going round in circles.