Just want to enjoy things again

[Soph94]

Hi ladies sorry this might be a tmi post but I am so fed up with being in pain during sex after I just feel so worn out, feeling sick and in agony. Also the bleeding after I just want it all to stop I want to be able to enjoy it and not worry about being in pain and the aftermath. My partner is very understanding but I just try to avoid it when I can and I don't want it to affect our relationship. I hope my appointment for my lap comes through soon! They said it may be the end of November at the minute.

Sorry about the moan and maybe tmi hope everyone is doing ok xx

[wiltedandbewildered]

Hi, I'm so sorry to hear how down you're feeling. I'm afraid I can't offer you any advice or nuggets of wisdom, but I do totally understand how depressing it can be. It sounds like you have a kind partner which helps a little, I'm sure. Be gentle with yourself and I'm sure if you continue to be tender and loving with your partner in other ways, that will be enough for him for now. When you feel stronger you can both get back to enjoying your love life together. Xxx

[Nicolawatt]

I wish I had some advice for you, I am exactly the same. I have now completely given up with sex and at 26 it is starting to anger me now. The doctors have now put me on decapeptyl injections (second course of these which are t helping). I am like yourself so depressed by it. The Drs won't operate on me because I only had an op a year ago. xxx