Hi, thanks for you reply.
It does help to hear other people's experiences.
What do you mean by excision surgery? Is it to remove my endometriosis? Because I have had that done already in Nov 2014. The pain is worse now than before. I have it on my bowels too but they didn't remove it from there as they didn't want to risk any damage to the bowel.
I am thinking that maybe I might try the coil by itself...I will have to discuss the pros and cons of coil and ablation together with my specialist...she may think that that having both may be my best option.
Knowing how much I'm suffering, that is what is making me feel I need to stop trying for a baby even though I would really want another. My husband says maybe it's time to stop and he is happy with just my daughter. I am too but I don't feel complete...if you know what I mean. I don't want to have any regrets. I feel like I'm going to let my daughter down for not trying. I am 39 and there are people who are starting families in their 40's...so what if I have a 13 year old. People do talk. It makes me mad.
On top of everything we live with my in laws...culture and everything. It makes it very difficult to cope with the pain when people around you think you're just making it up sometimes to get out of doing housework or going to family functions. I've done it for 16 years! My husband is fed up too. Hopefully some day soon we can finally have our own home where we can 'just be'.
Let's see what happens xxx