Going to be very frank. I got married at 24 and my husband has been my only sexual partner. Sex has never been not painful, it's been less and more but never enjoyable. DH does do oral on me but is not really keen for me to return the favour. So our sex life is not very satisfying for him and it's very few and far between, I don't know if I have a naturally low libido or if the pain and fatigue just makes it all too much like hard work to bother with. DH deals most of the time.. And then like last night he gets really frustrated and cross about it.
Anyone else have these sorts of issues?