It’s great reading how well you guys are all doing, especially those of you nearing graduation and working your way through the long runs.
I was due to run yesterday and then again this morning instead but I haven’t. So I need to draw on the energy you guys are pushing out and either run this evening or (probably more likely) early tomorrow
Thanks for sharing all of your progress - I find it really motivating when I feel myself flagging.
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Thanks for your post Jay. I’ve found motivation snaking since graduation. I always look forward to the run but just feel I don’t do as well as I’d hoped I would! Or improve very much 😫. I Need to get my act together and think more positive!!
Hi Jay, I hope you are doing ok, I find I am the same, should have run yesterday but didnt🙃. Must get going tomorrow, I found leading up to graduation , that I was very much more focused and much more strict with myself . I am way off 5 K but hopefully distance and stamina will increase with time. At least I am doing better than I was when I was on the couch 😂😂😂
I think we all feel a bit like this! Having the graduation in your sights Spurs you on somewhat and when it’s over it’s harder to get motivated. Just know that you’re not alone! X
Hi Jay. I’m enjoying my runs now - I just set off and explore different routes listening to great music. At the moment, I stop after about 32 or 33 minutes, but the distance covered doesn’t bother me too much. It’s just over 4km at the moment, but as it’s hilly round here, that can vary depending on my route. I think the main thing is to enjoy the lovely weather, the different scenery (even if it’s running through estates I’ve never explored!) and be amazed that I’m running pretty much every other day for over 30 minutes!! I’m definitely hooked and always look forward to my next run.
Maybe the secret is not to stress too much about reaching 5K?
Great post Cazza, consolidation running is running because you can! For 30 whole minutes too! I agree stressing about reaching 5k is not helpful.
Run because you can and because you don't want to lose all that great hard work you have put in...and because you have splashed out on some super running shoes.. (wear them in😆)
You will all reach 5k it is possible, just give it some time...
Happy running all and don't forget you are in the Quest Jay!😊xx
I'd just go out for a run because you can! That's what I'm doing this afternoon. It's a bit warm but I can't run later so I'm going out to plod around the local roads and paths for 30 minutes. I know it won't be fast and I won't go much over 3.5k so I'm not even going to record it. Just a run for fun. Because I can run now!!! You can do it! Shorts on! Lovely new shoes on! Good luck!! 😀😀😀
Yep... stop allowing excuses to creep in...just get out there because you can now run for 30 mins and you couldn't before 👍
And because you know you really do want to... you do 😉
Don't wait for motivation (many people spend years waiting...). What you need at this point is discipline. Diarise (hate that word) your runs and allow no debate, no discussion, no option.
You run because you have to.
When you complete the run, focus on the positives; the things that went well and the things that you learned. If you focus on negatives (I didn't go far enough, or fast enough) running will become aversive. NOW C'MON!
It’s behaviourism. If something is rewarded, people (and animals) will do more of it. If you are punished for doing something the behaviour will be extinguished 😊🏃🏾♀️👍
Hi Jay, I reckon we’ve all been there from time to time 🙄 It seemed much easier when we had graduation to aim at! 😊 I’d just concentrate on doing 30 minutes for now, which will build up your stamina. If you go a little further, all well and good 🙂 Sometimes I just set myself little goals, like “just to the next lamp post/hedge/gate, then slow down a bit”. I find that keeps me interested when things aren’t going so well. ☺️
Keep at it, it would be a shame to lose all the hard work you’ve put in so far. 🏃♂️🏃♂️
Yes Jay, just get out there and run. Just follow all the wonderful advise you have been giving others on this forum and get yourself out there and run. You know how great it makes you feel and what you've achieved so far, so just go and enjoy it.
I'm also stuck on the IC at the moment & it's not a nice place to be. I can't wait to be back out there again and however unmotivated I may feel in the future about getting out there, I will just remember just how rotten it feels not to be able to get out there, so as Lorijay has already said "Run because you can".
Don't over think things such as distance, it's really not important in the grand scheme of things, its the getting out there and doing it that counts.
I feel you Jay, I really wanted to keep it up while my motivation was high, but for a variety of reasons I haven't been able to fit a run in since I graduated on Friday 😣 (mainly an elderly relative in hospital, leaving his disabled wife home alone & double shifting at work) but I've downloaded some podcasts I'm wanting listen to and fingers crossed I should get the chance Wednesday.
I'm still keen to get out there, and even though it's only been a few days it seems like ages which I'm hoping is a good sign.
Looking forward to running 'cos I want to, for as long as I want to, no pressure ... but we'll see how that goes 🤔
Really? Of all the people’s posts I read on here yours are the ones that always seem so motivated! I read them and think go you ... park runs, consolidation runs, uphills, downhills ... maybe you’re just having an off couple of days! I am plodding along for 30 minutes nearly every other day and there is nooo way I’m doing 5k in that time for quite a while! It really doesn’t matter to me I just don’t want to ever stop doing my 30 minutes however far it takes me! I just love how it makes me feel 😃 ... hopefully you’ll go out and run soon so we can all read your post! 🏃♂️
You know what Jay, if later today feels good and you’re feeling more motivated by all the positive replies you’ve had, just get out there and do it! Don’t wait till the morning, something might come up, or it could be pouring down or blowing a gale, or you could have an emergency to deal with. So, if you can do it now, get those shoes on, open the door and off you go. It does not matter whether it’s 3K, 4 K or the elusive 5K. You’re doing it because you can and you’ve already proved you’re not a quitter!
Don’t get hung up about the 5K, you’re building strength and stamina with every run.
I know from my own personal experience that sometimes you just don’t want to run and it’s very easy to find an excuse, but without exception, if you make yourself do it, you’ll feel infinitely better. No such thing as a bad run. 🏃♀️🏃♀️😊
My plan is to escape work soon and run/shower before a webcast at 6 that I have to watch (as I will be skipping staying at work to attend the meeting being webcast). My it’s hot out there... 🤣
What about another goal? I haven't graduated yet but was wondering about a 10k or half marathon later in the year- thought it might keep me motivated once I finish week 9. Seems a long way off but then I never thought I would be able to run for longer than 10mins so.... 😁
I get where you're coming from Jay66UK 😊 I think it's human nature to sometimes feel unmotivated, but I also know, that for me anyway, it can be a slippery slope 😳 And one that takes me back to comfort zone 🤔 And that's when I realise how easy it would be to get into the habit of putting my run off one day at a time ~ until I'd let those gremlins win, and didn't continue my runs .... cue the self fulfilling prophecy : " I knew I wouldn't stick at it/couldn't do it/ was too old, fat "etc Remember your tee shirt slogan "I quit quitting!" 😬 Can't wait to read your come-back post! X
Don't sweat it, just because you've had an extra day or two off, the next run will be all the better for it. Don't leave it too long Jay, you know that feeling when you've had a week away from the gym - Killer!
As already pointed out, we all love your posts, the place isn't the same without your updates. So, c'mon lace up and more importantly chin up.
Why don't you try Zombies, Run with me, that's my plan for next run out! If that doesn't motivate us...🧟♀️🧟♂️
Jay, reading your posts is one of the things I have found most inspiring - they really have encouraged me to get out there and do my own postgrad runs these last couple of weeks. If I see you have posted something then I always look forward to reading it. Please don't get stressed about the 5k distance - running for 30 mins because you can is amazing, and each run makes you a little stronger x
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