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The never-give-up strategy

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I do find running fun now but there was a definite period where I just thought, what’s the point, I can’t do it, I’ve never been able to do it and I’ll never be able to do it. About week 4, and again about week 7.

If that’s you, this is what got me through, in hopes that it may help. It’s the same thing that eventually got me through my 8 year slog on a PhD. 1) I really really thought about quitting, and in doing that I realized how important this programme was to me. How I wanted, really deeply, to live well in the second half of my life, to not get dementia, and diabetes, and heart attacks, as well as eventually to look nice and enjoy looking at myself in the mirror (half deep, half shallow?). So, think about quitting. Think about what you are giving up. 2) if you really decide that you really want to do it, then the answer is just — not to quit. You really can’t fail this programme, since it really works and it doesn’t matter if it takes you longer. You can of course fail a PhD, but there I decided that they would actually have to kick me out before I would stop... (they never did, and I got it, so there!)

The bad parts of this programme aren’t that bad — they are temporary and you can just drop to a walk if it all becomes too much and then try again, and magically the next time you try you will be better. The good parts are really very good — improved mental and physical health, sense of achievement, better fitting jeans, renewed fortitude against life’s troubles. Just grind out the difficult bits and don’t give up. You don’t need to give up! You can’t fail! You can do it! And you deserve all those good things.

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Polly2810 profile image
Polly2810Graduate

Well said....so very true!!

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MummycavAdministratorGraduate

Great words ejvcruns ....are you listening everybody?! 😉

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Pc59Graduate

Wow!!! Great post to keep us motivated & so true!!😊

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Cornet-CarolynGraduate

Such a motivating post, thank you 😊

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Gaspode1Graduate

Great advice. I’ll be thinking of this tomorrow morning when I hit the treadmill for Wk8R2.

Thank you

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IgaTGraduate

Very motivational!

I failed my PhD, but for exactly the same reasons I won't fail in running :)

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KerrisueGraduate

Brillant post!

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Sandyscroll

Very well said!

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SaratamsinGraduate

Great advice - thankyou.

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OldflossAdministratorGraduate

Great post... Newbies and not so newbies.... this is for all of us !

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IficandoitGraduate

I’m listening! Keep telling me though because it’s sometimes hard to see the point. The long term health benefits even if we never get any faster are definitely worth remembering. I want to be as fit and healthy and inspirational for myself and my children as I get older. Great post - thank you.

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ejvcrunsGraduate in reply to Ificandoit

I was just wondering where you were! Getting faster is pleasant but unnecessary. If you want to try, though, I recommend intervals and longer runs -- I'm doing a programme of 1. short interval; 2. 5k run; 3. longer run (this week 6k eek). I also did a few weeks of 10 minute runs interspersed with exercises, stretches, skipping, etc. like warm up 5 mins, (jog 10 mins, do something 3 mins)repeat twice, finish with a 10 min run with a sprint at the end.

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IficandoitGraduate in reply to ejvcruns

I’m still here! Still running but really missing the structure of the c25k programme. My brother has invited (challenged?) me to his local parkrun in a couple of weeks so that’s my target at the moment - consolidating and reaching 5k relatively easily. Are your interval programmes part of the zombie run thing?

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ejvcrunsGraduate in reply to Ificandoit

Yes, they are a bit of zombie stuff but tbh I think you might be able to program them in to apps like strava or run keeper.

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Martin_RoseGraduate

Great post for everyone.

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angemumGraduate

Sometimes I think it's like childbirth - you say 'never again' when you're in the throes of it, then afterwards you feel so thrilled, you end up trying again :-) (ps - I ended up with four kids!)

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ejvcrunsGraduate in reply to angemum

Nope, never again. Two was plenty for me LOL.

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ickleguiGraduate

I absolutely concur. This post has come at the right time for me - thank you, from a fellow never-give-up 8 year PhD-er. Really need some of that fortitude and if running could help - and it certainly doesn't harm - then I could really just bear that in mind more often.

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ejvcrunsGraduate in reply to icklegui

One must develop one's capacity for sheer bloody-mindedness...

Have you got a viva date or anything? I'm wishing you the best of everything.

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ickleguiGraduate in reply to ejvcruns

My supervisor alternately calls me bloody-minded, tenacious or just plain stubborn :) viva has been and gone, as have major corrections (and they were so major...) now just limping on with minor corrections... while trying to work full time... can't give up now...!

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ejvcrunsGraduate in reply to icklegui

OMG horrible. I also had major corrections (had to remove a chapter!) but I hustled them out and didn't have any to follow. You definitely are not allowed to give up now.

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ickleguiGraduate in reply to ejvcruns

remove a chapter .... blimey ... I had to practically add a whole chapter, as well as large tracts of other chapters ... nearly there now though!

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KimterryGraduate

Wonderful, wonderful post! Are you a motivational speaker by any chance?! If not, you should be! Everyone - keep on running; it really is the best medicine 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏃👍👍👍

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ejvcrunsGraduate in reply to Kimterry

No, I’m an inveterate slacker mostly, so I’m constantly trying to motivate myself :-) thank you!

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FishypiefaceGraduate

Love it - as always! :)

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ruralfranceGraduate

I love this post! It's inspiring. I've had a number of difficult times after reaching week 6 and have also thought about giving up. But then, a bit later, it all comes right again. Amazing. Thank you for all this wise advice, ejvcruns. And well done for the phd, and the running, of course!

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kbed

This has to be the best post I have seen what good encouragement & outlook.

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Fairydust777Graduate

What an inspirational post. I passed my PhD a few years ago now and that was difficult. Your post has put this C25K in perspective for me. I’ll use the mantra “if I can achieve a PhD, I can run” for my next instalment this evening (the dreaded W5R3).

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