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This is my first actual post, so apologies for its length, but have responded to other post’s on here. I am one of those silent types you see mentioned, my wife , London girl on here finally got me to join and so glad I did.

About my CLL , diagnosed back in 01/15 , FCR on flair trial 11/16 for 6 rounds, CLL kicked into touch , all bloods down in normal range although platelets never managed to get to normal but this was consistent with FCR in some people. I also have an under active Thyroid

A few good months of health then what I can only describe as a bizarre period of my life came about starting in 09/17.

It started with a tooth ache which in turn caused nodes in neck to swell one side, not unusual for an infection so no drama or concerns. Tooth out but nodes stayed put. Was also then told wisdom teeth impacted and need another 4 extractions so yes another 4 teeth needed to come out and as we all know surgery is not a great option for our compromised immune system.

Platelets then began dropping but everything else bloods was fine. Lymph nodes in neck still swollen (think jabber the hut if you are a star wars nerd)

Week before first extraction a tiny cold sore on top lip appeared which in the space of 12 hours ballooned to scary proportions so straight to A&E, lot of tests and head scratching, they were not sure if it was an allergic or Immuno reaction but treated with antibiotics and steroids and healed in a week then had first 2 teeth out which went well. Platelets still going down but my CLL consultant thought all the teeth infections were clouding what was going on and should wait to settle down, then came the displaced knee cap which I knocked assembling a desk so that I could work from home more. Two weeks in a leg brace unable to bend at all, once again incredible swelling, now I am thinking this could be my reaction to any injury because of CLL.

Still pressed on with other 2 teeth extractions which went well.

This is now early January this year and decision is taken for me to start Ibrutinib but there is a catch, my son is due to get Married on the 23rd of February to his Brazilian girlfriend in Brazil and I am desperate to be there, my a platelets are at 60 so you can imagine my consultants concern so it’s decided to postpone Ibrutinib and manage me with steroids until I get back which to some may sound crazy but my father missed my wedding due to cancer (lung) and I never got over it so I was damn well not going to miss my sons wedding.

I had bloods tested right up to a couple of days before travel before I got go ahead ( it was that close) I traveled with a platelet count of 42. It was a fantastic time with the perfect wedding in Belo Horizonte and 5 days in Rio.

We returned to a burst water pipe in the loft, I just burst out laughing as I really couldn’t have cared less about material things anymore thats where I was as a person.

That was 12 days ago so where am I now you may ask.

Well caught a cold but didn’t feel that bad until Monday afternoon when got a small blister on bottom lip started running a high temperature of 39 on Monday evening, woke up Tuesday morning with massive bottom lip and trip to A&E where I was admitted to hospital for observation.

I start Ibrutinib today and hope that I am about to turn a corner and get back to some sort of normality if we can ever have such a thing.

I have obviously had some dark times but remain positive and have the most exceptional team behind me and have made some great friends on here as well

Nic, Beth and Sue who have been rocks and also my wife who is the strongest person I know.

I promise short and sweet post’s from now on but had a lot to get off my chest.

Love to everyone

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AdrianUK

My goodness. Sounds like you have really gone through the ringer lately. I hope you get a good result from the new medication... sounds like FCR worked well for you at least for a while. Have they spoken about immunoglobulins with you? Some people really benefit from the infusions if their antibodies are low.... Sounds like you’ve had a lot of infections!

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Dell49 in reply toAdrianUK

Thanks Adrian , the wisdom teeth where just unlucky due to direction they grew but everything else was bloody annoying. Consensus is that CLL is underlying cause so will trust team and crack on .

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BellaBee10

Good luck today Del x

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NewdawnAdministrator

A really warm welcome to you Dell and I’m so glad that your missus, our very own Londongirl encouraged you to post. Please dont even think about reducing your posts but please restrict them to the community if you don’t want everyone on the net to know your business! 😉

I read your very interesting post with more ups and downs than a rollercoaster and thought, ‘welcome to my world!’ You’ve rallied and endured in the face of adversity, obviously with the strength of your wife behind you and the ‘girls’ who have clearly been her support network too.

I’ve had a taste of this dental link between very enlarged nodes and infections and interestingly also got a strange cut/sore on my lip that had my levels reaching for the stars! Fortunately I didn’t end up in hospital but for a few months it had my nerves jangling!

So glad you bravely got to your son’s wedding. I can see why nothing was going to make you miss it.

I hope the Ibrutinib starts to work it’s magic and you can start to see some health stability Dell. As for the leak in the roof...I remember getting up one Christmas morning just after my dad had died and the kitchen was awash from water running through the ceiling. The challenges of life that invade even when we’ve enough to contend with!

Huge best wishes,

Newdawn

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Dell49 in reply toNewdawn

Hi Dawn

Thanks for your thoughts you are a rock on this forum and so knowledgeable as is the legend Aussie neal.

It would be a crazy world if I thought a pipe burst because I had cancer , I’m sticking with the incompetent plumber 😎

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BellaBee10

And prophylactic means rectally Del. Told you. That's how they give you Ibrutinib.

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Dell49 in reply toBellaBee10

Lies !

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BellaBee10 in reply toDell49

Nope. Madam Palm and the Blue Gloved Princesses will be paying you a visit soon.

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Dell49 in reply toBellaBee10

😂

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Wroxham in reply toDell49

Not all.

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Wroxham in reply toDell49

Not all dell. Thinking of you and the blue gloves!!

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Dell49 in reply toWroxham

She even mentioned it on FB Sue , she is mad 😂

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Wroxham in reply toDell49

Totally mad, but lovely with it.x

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fell

Hi Dell,

I have no words. You have been through the ringer and have shown incredible resilience and positivity! Attitude is so important and will help you get through challenges like the ones that you have already faced. I’ve been on Ibrutinib for a little over three weeks and it’s been great for me so far. Hoping that it will help you turn the corner.

Best,

Fell

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Dell49 in reply tofell

Thanks Fell and fantastic news about your treatment good luck and will post updates on my experience

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NewdawnAdministrator

You have this to contend with and a posse of CLL women winding you up as well Dell! Good luck! 🤣

Newdawn

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Dell49 in reply toNewdawn

Wouldn’t have it any other way Newdawn👍

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ap64

You area trooper. I hope ibrutinib treatment works well.

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Dell49 in reply toap64

Thanks ap like anything in life time will tell

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annmcgowan

Welcome nice to hear from you hope Ibrutinib does the trick.

Take care

Ann

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Dell49 in reply toannmcgowan

Thanks Ann

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UK-Sparky

Dell, man after my own heart, be positive, keep strong and laugh at adversity I say so well done and welcome to the mad house!

UK Sparky

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Dell49 in reply toUK-Sparky

Cheers Sparky very good advice as always 👍

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migirlusa

Gosh what a road you have traveled. Best of luck with your treatment. Make sure you take us on this journey with you.

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Dell49 in reply tomigirlusa

Thank you . Will update soon

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Bethan49

Well done Del.. Good to offload.. What a time.. Know we are rooting for you.. Huge hugs and praying the ibruitinib does its job. Keep us all posted... Xxxxx

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Dell49 in reply toBethan49

Hi Beth, I don’t know what Maria and I would have done without you, Sue and the mad one 😂 and this entire group actually, all such great caring people, makes the world seem sane again. Love to you and I must set up a whatsapp group with you me and Nic if only to annoy Maria 😜

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Bethan49 in reply toDell49

Yeah do it... I was feeling left out!!!! We should call it only proper cllers!

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London_Girl in reply toDell49

Stop nicking my friends!!!

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PaulaSVolunteer

Thanks so much for sharing, Dell. We've heard a lot about you from your lovely wife so it's good to hear from you in person!

So glad your son's wedding went well - just a pity about the burst pipe when you got back!

Wishing you all the best as you start on the Ibrutinib.

Greetings from Sheffield,

Paula

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Dell49 in reply toPaulaS

Thanks Paula , blessed in so many other ways so a burst pipe is nothing. Look forward to sharing with you all soon .

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cllady01Former Volunteer

Dell, I haven't read the other posts yet, but I want to say hurrah to you for your toughness and ability to see the ridiculous side of the onslaught when you returned from your son's Brazil wedding!

Sometimes it is: "WHAT CAN HAPPEN NEXT?" Glad to hear the trip was a winner. Best of luck with your coming treatment.

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Dell49 in reply tocllady01

Thank you , it was such an experience it would have been devastating to miss. A good friend who faces her own much more aggressive battle told me cancer is a bully and the only way is to bully back and that lady is an inspiration to me as is everyone one on here, a genuine place of love and friendship.

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cllady01Former Volunteer in reply toDell49

It is my go to place after the horrible, no good, horrid news I watch every AM--glad you have joined in with Londongirl. I can see the British brand of humor with a good sense of sensible will be keeping us entertained!

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Mystic75

Welcome Dell49! Attitude is everything and your attitude is one of your greatest assets! I'm so glad you were able to go to the wedding and have a fabulous time - due to no lack of determination on your part!

You have had quite a challenging journey so far - here's wishing ibrutinib helps turn that corner you are looking for!

All the best,

D.

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Dell49 in reply toMystic75

Thanks D , I like to think that I am getting all the crazy out of the way in one go so here’s hoping. 😎

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MsLockYourPostsPassed Volunteer

Saw part two before this post. Now I understand. Definitely worth it. I'm so glad that you were able to go! Now onward and upward with the Imbruvica!

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Dell49 in reply toMsLockYourPosts

Thank you for your kind words 👍

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London_Girl

What a fab post. It's about time you off loaded and what a great way to do it! As I have told you soooo many times, I couldn't have got through it without everyone's support on here!

love ' Your Rock' xxxx

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