I think i will do a quick surgery again

[user533]

Hello yall, first of all if you havent read my last post then i can resume again.

I had surgeries in my life for some reason on my cheek. I still have a scar, its almost non visible, but theres only one side of the scar that is visible.

so yeah, i've thought about it lately. I'm kinda enough to live like that. I know my scar can be fix by a quick 10 mins surgery; I know what is the issue , it even has a name;

like , im a pretty man but just because of this 'flaw' , i struggle in life. I struggle to make a girlfriend , for example. Because when they see me , they tend to just focus on my scar's visible part and then they arent interested in me .

Im 26 now... Pretty much all my life i've lived throught physical appearance's concerns. At first, i was born with a birthmark on my cheek. Then i removed it with surgeries, but then there was ugly parts to my facial scar.

Then i fixed one part of my scar in 2014, and i felt so much better since then.

So yeah, i think i want to stop suffer... I will return to see the same surgeon who helped me in 2014 and i'll explain him what i want to fix... with pictures to back up.

If you're wondering why i sound so much confident, its because i know what im doing. There is a name to my scar's visible part ( a name of what condition it is, we can find it online ). And online they show exactly how to fix this thing.

so yeah, it will always be my last and final surgery. i wont need it anymore after it.

I just want to be more confident in my looks, not have to be bothered by people laughing at me . I also dont want to end up alone all my life. i know im a pretty guy and it would suck that my potential would be screwed just because of a scar.

But i know that one day if i meet someone for me, she will like me the way i am. I know that. But i just think that my scar's condition is a weird one, and it should be fix, especially if its on the face because its very noticeable.

so, thanks for reading me. I just hope that my surgeon will understand the issue and will be able to fix it.

[Tortoise96]

Hi there,

I think you should do what makes you happy! I would absolutely love to have surgery and hide my scar to be honest! However I have so many people around me telling me that it makes me me, makes me unique all this. What type of surgery do you get? Maybe I should look into it! If it makes yo feel better and more confident then why not!

[MTTA]

Please be careful. I have regretted having help to treat my scar, laser things... if I knew the risks I would never accepted it. And it was a doctor that proposed, not my wanting... wish you the best.

[MTTA]

All revision scars seem great imediately after the procedure. But It can widen or become worse months after.. like you I’ve considered many times that to my scars. I don’t want to make you nervous or scared, it’s just a sincere advice. I’m a nurse.